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Totally fed up :(

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 10:47

Know I'll probably get flamed for this but here goes...........

I am 100% fed up with being pregnant!! I'm 35+4 and in constant pain, constant cramping and braxton hicks, can barely walk without being in pain, moods are all over the place! The thought of another 4 and bit weeks of this totally depresses me Hmm I feel awful admitting all this as I know it's best for bubs to stay put but my god I'm at the end of my tether! I can't be the only person that feels this way!!

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sleepybee · 15/02/2015 11:02

Grin I'm coming up for 30 weeks & been fed up being preggers since about 10 weeks. This is my first & tbh if someone said to me I'd be constantly sick, nauseous, tired, moody & sore everywhere plus all the other lovely side effects I might have thought twice about doing this Confused I will say it pregnancy sucks but at least there's an end point Hmm

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 11:07

I've been feeling like this for a few weeks but it's really came to a head over past few days, this is my 2nd and my 1st pregnancy was in no way like this! And my 1st pregnancy was done by 34 weeks and that was a worry which makes me feel worse for feeling like this!

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Serephim · 15/02/2015 11:20

36+3 here and very over being pregnant. Fed up of feeling full and then being sick, fed up of the constant mood swings, fed up of people treating me like I am a fragile flower. On the up side, in less than a month and a half (hopefully) we will have our second and last baby. Smile

zebrapig · 15/02/2015 11:25

32+4 and fed up here as well! I was fine until the start of this week when I started with awful pain in my left hip meaning I'm struggling to get around, even in the house. Can't get comfortable in bed and it really hurts to turn over and get in/out. Hubby pushed me around B&Q in a wheelchair yesterday as it hurt too much to walk. The thought of another 7 weeks like this is really daunting as I'm not used to being so dependant on someone else Hmm

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 11:25

I'm so glad im not the one in feeling like this! That's whatever prelims myself, a month and it'll all be over! Tho a month seems like an eternity right now!

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 11:27

Oh zebra that sounds awful, I'd feel the same being dependant on someone!

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m33r · 15/02/2015 12:54

35+3 and fed up worrying about monitoring movements, optimal positioning etc etc. also just so excited to meet little one. Don't know how I'd be managing of I had any issues like you girls have. Just keep the thought of that little baby in mind! Cake

shelley1977 · 15/02/2015 13:10

Im feeling really crap too. Not slept right in a month quite not at all for days at a time due to pain and being uncomfortable. Not really able to rest as got so much to keep on top of, my partner isn't well and works full time so don't want him to have to take on to much. My moods have been awful but have no one to talk to about it. this last week though the pains are worse,babys head felt so low and I had so many strong tightenings yesterday. Ill be happy to get to March and then baby can come as soon as he likes.

gallicgirl · 15/02/2015 13:15

I've been fed up all the way through. Bad morning sickness, pgp and back ache.
37 weeks tomorrow and birth pool arriving this week. Just need to sort the crib out and we can go.
Can't come soon enough in some ways but not looking forward to it either.

Ah well, being fed up is survivable.

hodgepodgepanda · 15/02/2015 13:18

Snap !

I'm 34 weeks today & beyond fed up of the constant pain .
I'd give anything for a full nights sleep & to be able to do anything/go anywhere would be nice as well but instead I'm bloody house bound

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 13:58

Shelley I've been the same with pain low down and tightenings!! It's horrible, I've had continuous braxtons for 3 days straight!

I've been in a grump since yest cos I've started to waddle, didn't think it was too bad/noticeable till 4 diff people made comment my sis was copying me and slagging me and my mates calling me pingu!!

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KentExpecting · 15/02/2015 13:59

35+4 here... And could not be more fed up if I tried. You're not alone in this!

missmakesstuff · 15/02/2015 15:07

35 week's tomorrow and just finished work Friday, expected to feel relaxed but I'm so fed up! Pain in ribs everytime I sit or lay down, pain in fanjo from walking and now a chesty cough starting, wonderful! I've just made a to-do list and the things we need to do before baby is here are mounting up...feeling a bit overwhelmed and with dd (5) wanting to play and needing to get to school every day I'm already feeling tired!
I haven't any health issues though, baby is head down (unlike dd was) and I suppose I just have to think of it as a potential 7 weeks of time to do whatever I want (between the hours of 9 and 2:30 at least!)

Justwish my ribs would stop hurting!

shelley1977 · 15/02/2015 18:15

M27 the waddling is the worst, last thing you need is people teasing. My ribs are aching today, its usually worse in evening but baby seems to have spent all day with toes there! Spent an hour crying after my partner had a bit of a grump and I just couldn't handle it. Luckily he took his daughters out and my daughter so I was alone. I just want to sleep Sad

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M27J5M · 15/02/2015 18:53

Missmakes I'd defo enjoy the time to yourself Smile I'm trying to do as much of that as I can while DS is at school!

I've got to say unlike my last pregnancy I have no pain in ribs etc, all my pain is in bottom of bump and back and cramps and constant braxtons that's making it worse!

Aww Shelley least you had some time to yourself Smile

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Serephim · 15/02/2015 19:58

M27 I am desperately trying not to waddle, I am overweight and the last thing I need is to look like a flipping weeble going down the road. Grin
I spent most of yesterday in my room, my mood was shocking so I stayed out of DH and kids way. Bless him he has had to put up with a lot. Smile

mrshjb · 16/02/2015 10:22

I was so completely fed up up of being pregnant. I felt like shit and cried and moaned a lot. Then I ended up in hospital because I kept being sick and had a pain in my chest every night that wouldn't go away. To cut a long story short they thought I might have pre eclampsia so I spent a week in hospital before being induced and having my little boy at 36+3. Even though it was so stressful and depressing I have to say I was so glad to cut my pregnancy short by possibly up to 6 weeks!

I feel for all you ladies still pregnant, it's bloody hard work!

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M27J5M · 16/02/2015 10:26

I'd happily cut this pregnancy short right now! Know it's best to have bubs in there as long as possible but I've had a preterm baby before who was already weeks old by this point and doing great so I know all would be fine! I'm fed up bring sore Hmm

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shelley1977 · 16/02/2015 10:30

My dates vary by 3 weeks so I really want at least 2 more weeks before baby comes, not sure i can cope with many more nights like last night. Think I might lose the plot,i feel like an emotional rollercoaster!

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M27J5M · 16/02/2015 11:52

Well from last night the period cramps have got 10x worse, know nothing is happening but my god they are painful!

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shelley1977 · 16/02/2015 13:44

Im not in so much pain at the moment, just very hormonal and tired. Cant look forward to bedtime as wont sleep but ill be glad to get home after daughters dance class and know its nearly another day over and a day closer to baby being here.
M27 hope the pain eases a bit for you x

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M27J5M · 16/02/2015 14:20

The past few days I've been less hormonal, I've been a raging bull all through this pregnancy but since late last week I've been mega chilled etc which I'm finding weird lol

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M27J5M · 16/02/2015 23:00

I take it back, my chilled out mood went right out the door tonight! Irritable and grumpy Confused

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shelley1977 · 16/02/2015 23:16

Hopefully you'll feel more settled again soon. I'm always better when my partners with me, It's through the day I find hard which is strange as I have always like being on my own. It was one of the main reasons j was a single parent for so many years!

TheBooMonster · 16/02/2015 23:18

I had such an easy pregnancy last time, I had actually considered looking into surrogacy once I'd had my own kids, oh boy how much I've changed my mind this time round!!! I've had sickness the whole way through, my hips are a bloody mess, I'm pretty much on bed rest to keep he 'tightenings' at bay, the hospital don't seem to give a crap because it's not labour. I have a scan this week to check for IUGR (DD ended up a bit small and was induced at 36 weeks) and there's an awful part of me that's hoping the baby is small enough that they'll consider inducing in the next month...