I've been with my husband for almost 20 years and we were diagnosed with unexplained infertility back in 2010. We tried different treatments and interventions until we were eventually referred for IVF in 2013. Our very first round resulted in a BFP, and our beautiful baby daughter was born in October, last year. We have been walking around on cloud nine ever since. We were asked about birth control and we both kind of laughed and said we'd be happy to take our chances, as we thought chances were beyond slim, anyway. We hoped to start trying again when our daughter hit a year old. We didn't want to pump my body with contraceptive pills, so we have been using the rhythm method. Clearly we used this to 'ill' effect, because as my daughter is 4 months old I have just discovered I am pregnant again! My feelings? Overwhelmed; overjoyed; in a state of disbelief (I have done 5 tests in two days); feeling naive/silly; scared... Yep, silly and scared probably win overall at the minute. I know people will be reading this thinking, 'Really?!' But after so many years trying just about everything but standing on our heads to conceive our first baby, we feel shocked! Telling my parents is going to be the hardest. (I feel like a teenager rather than a grown woman in my late thirties). I'm also scared at how hard it's going to be raising two babies so young and afraid I mightn't be able to give my daughter the attention she needs. My husnband is happy about a second baby and tells me we'll cope, but he's more worried about my physical health and any risks such a close pregnancy might pose for me. (My first pregnancy was really straight forward and I had a vaginal delivery.) I'm hoping anyone else in a similar situation might be able to give me some advice or reassurance.