just curious was I the only one who loved having visitors?

[franca70]

so, having seen the other thread on visitors policy after childbirth and completely understanding the motivations and emphatizing personal experiences, was I the only one who enjoyed having people around, like the more the merrier kind of thing?

I loved it too. In fact, I have just posted this to one of the other posts complaining about inconsiderate visitors:

I have just read most of your replies and decided I must be a bit wierd because I love having visitors when I've just had a baby. Giving birth leaves me on a high and a bit hyper and I just want to show off my family .

For me, it's about a month later that I really want to shut everyone out and just stay home with the family and no visitors.

This time I found that lots of people didn't visit first because they thought the family would be (they weren't because we don't have a huge extended family) and they all wanted to see us about a month later, all at the same time .

Can imagine i'll love any visitor who brings over a rather nice present