Please advice

[Mellyjade]

The last few month has completley destroyed me loosing my dad on the 26th september to a bloodclot was hard then falling pregnant and was told on the 26th of january they think i lost my baby to a bloodclot tjen being told it might not have gone gave me another ten days to see if there was any growth and Then 1 night before our anniversary my partner left me. Its been only 2 days and girls my mind my head everything is all over the place! I have a four year old daughter and i no i have to be strong for her but how the hell am i ment to do that? I now have to grieve for two people at the same time and also my relationship. I go for surgery on wed. I am not coping. Docs will just pt it down to post natal d. I need some real advice on what to do PLEASE.

Im so sorry youre having such a terrible time, it must be so hard. I dont know what I can say, only that you need to give yourself time to grieve, it may be that you ask someone to help with your DD so you can have some time for yourself. Although I understand this is not always a straight forward option. Speaking to the doctors would also be a agreat help, if they hear your story Im sure they wont just put it down to PND, anyone would be struggling in your position and I think councilling might be a great help/option for you. I'm sorry if Im not much help, I lost my dad when I was 20 and didnt cope well myself and I didnt have all the other issues that you have going on. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope that you find a way though all this. Keep talking to people in RL and, if it helps, on here to. xxx