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Rude in-laws

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FirstTimeMum96 · 13/01/2015 11:42

So for some messed up reason my partners family all believe I am 'faking' my pregnancy as a way too keep my boyfriend (we weren't braking up) and as a way to get money from him.
What do I do? They're ruining my first pregnancy for me. :(

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OnlyLovers · 13/01/2015 13:58

Well, I'm glad he's supporting you. But please consider calling the police. People can't just make threats to your life.

DayLillie · 13/01/2015 14:01

YY to getting well away from them

YY to reporting their threats to the police (3 in one day!)

And stay away from them , no matter what excuses they eventually come up with. People who react like this are not to be trusted.

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FirstTimeMum96 · 13/01/2015 14:02

I know I have my unborn child too think about which is why we are moving away from them. I'd rather not further aggravate the situation!
If it gets any worse as it has just started I will notify the police indefinitely.

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MaryWestmacott · 13/01/2015 14:07

I think there's a lot to be said for calling 101 and asking for police advice. You could state they have threatened your life but you don't think they mean it, but you'd like it logged in case it escalates and would they give you any advice about how to deal with it. Honestly, the police won't go rushing round with the blues and two to arrest them, they will just log your complaint. It could escalate, particularly if you are "taking away" their dear boy... Hmm

I would suggest you talk to your boyfriend about him telling them they aren't welcome in your home as they have been rude to you. You don't need the stress at this early stage. (If you have another, don't tell them at all.)

Make sure you've defriended from facebook etc so they can't bother you that way.

oh and congratulations! It should be a lovely time the first realisation you will be a mother, not dealing with this nonsense. Flowers

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FirstTimeMum96 · 13/01/2015 14:11

Thank you MaryWestmacott.

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Ememem84 · 13/01/2015 14:15

yeah i'd agree, if they are threatening your life go to the police - even better if they've done it by email/text you can present this to them as evidence.

man...what is wrong with some people. You'd have thought that a new life into a family was a happy occasion...?

congratulations by the way.
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