Had an appointment with my midwife today. It's the second time I've seen her as initially there was a stand in midwife.
Wasn't keen on her last time. She told me off for forgetting my urine sample, but didn't give me a chance to nip to the loo to do one.
Saw her again today and I really dislike her. After testing my urine it was given back to me. Wtf? I thought they had clinical bins for that. She then listened to the baby's heartbeat and both this time and last didn't provide any tissues for me to wipe off the gel with.
It was all very rushed and impersonal. The last thing she said to me was that I'd already had whooping cough jab so didn't need one. I said that I thought I needed another even tho youngest Ds is only 16 months. She then said that she didn't think I did but to check with reception. I checked and I was right. It's a bit worrying that if I was less assertive or clued up then I wouldn't have got this jab.
Do you think I'd be unreasonable to ask to see someone else as I don't trust her knowledge?