Please help mother with paranoia & anxiety over conception

[Smurf87]

Hi I'm going to keep this short I'm a women who has always suffered with depression, paranoia, anxiety & since being preg I feel it's out of control.

I love my partner dearly but we we had been having issues I turned to a friend for support & one thing lead to another (didn't have sex) just touching I was very drunk I don't remember if semen was present at the time but what I do no is I stopped it before it went to far. Now iv having irrational thoughts I have no control over thinking that my baby isnt his (my partner) but no matter how many times iv been told by friends it's impossible & deep down I no it is to, I'm on here seeking some reassurance there is absolutely no way this baby could be a result of a moment of madness and def my partners.

Due date 27/02/2015
Incident 07/03/2015

Scans have all been kind of accurate bar 1 out by 10 days which I think kicked all this paranoia off I believe. Can scans be this dramatically wrong I'm only 20 weeks and had 4 scans.

How wrong could a scan possibly be?????

I'm guessing the incident was 2014 not 15?

Even without looking at any calendars I can see that's nearly a year apart. Did you not have a period after the incident?

Yer it was 2014 I ment

And yer I did I had 2, however iv bleed in this pregnancy so i don't seek any comfort in that. I no it seems mad but iv at my wits end with anxiety over it.

20 weeks ago was June not march I think?

Yes and actually your the of conception was likely to be 18 weeks ago not 20.

I no that's what I'm saying. I'm told I conceived in June but what I'm asking is. Is there anyway the scans can be wrong?? And really the baby could be a product of the "incident" in April? :-(

I really am a mess!! Got them dates completely wrong.

My due date is 27/03/2015
The" incident " was 07/04/14

Scans say I conceived 9th June 2014 (which does add up with times me and my partner had intercourse on holiday)

What 2 months out?

Originally you said incident with other man was march. And you've had 2 period and are 20 weeks pregnant now.

No. Scans are not Likely to be 2 months out.

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Your due date and the incident are a year apart. And you didn't have sex.

Stop worrying and maybe consider counselling or support for depression/anxiety.

What the hell is wrong with me I'm DUE 27/02/15!! Defiantly correct this time!!

I'm on tablets (perfectly safe for baby) and had counselling 2 years straight after a breakdown. I sound like a right nut but to meet me you would never no I have these underlining issues, I'm good a hiding it. Nothing works iv given up I just want this baby to be the making of me because there is no doubt in my mind il be a good mum just hope she doesn't inherit my depression & anxiety because it's horrible.

Depression is shit isn't it?

You know this baby cannot possibly be from the other man. Nothing anyone can tell you will convince you - you need to believe this yourself.

The gestation period for a baby isn't 11 months. There's no way this baby isn't your partners.

I know & I even told my partner this morn the truth after I woke up in sweats having a panic attack & he was so understanding but did admit he doesn't no how to deal with it and never has. I don't deserve him really just keep having bad dreams this baby comes out wit other guys face it was a drunken Moment of madness I can never take back & il punish myself for the rest of my life I think & it wasn't even full on sex I must sound like a immature little girl but I'm 28 and in my rational head I no I'm being so stupid but the little devil on my shoulder always has the upper hand.