If you heard a name shortned to Tam, or Tammy........

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what sex would you automatically think they would be???

I wouldn't. I do like Tam, but...tampon... So I wouldn't.

VERY glad DH has got so enthusiastic though, QoQ!

You're having a girl anyway

that's alright if it's a girl - name been chosen for a VERY long time (same one we had chosen for if DS2 was a girl, and almost the same as what DS1 would have been if he was a girl LOL).

Tam is a male name in scotland, short for Thomas.
Tammy is a girls name.

Have never heard a girl called Tam.

My parents dog is called Tammy so i automatically think of a dog, sorry