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Any super tall mums to be?

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purplebiro · 20/10/2014 20:48

I'm 6'1" and DP is 6'0.5" (obvs he claims more) - 13 weeks (not had scan yet) and slightly concerned about the birthing of megababy - DP's mum had sections with both him and his sister due to their size, although my mum managed alright with me and she's 5'6" and I'm guessing I'll be more to "to scale" with this little one.

Other thing I was wondering - is the dating scan a calculation that takes into account mine and DP's giant status or is it a straight measurement = age table?

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Cloud10 · 20/10/2014 20:53

Hello! I'm 6ft and DP is 6'3...also slightly concerned about mega huge baby although I think we were both 'normal' sized so hopefully ours will be! I think the dating scan is just based on standard measurements, I had a scan before my height was measured and the dates didn't change later on. I think at the stage of the dating scan they are all pretty much the same size anyway :)

littlemissy12345 · 20/10/2014 22:33

I'm 6ft and my DH is 6.2, our DD was long but only 8lb, she is still in the 95 percentile for height but not weight. They moved me forward 3 days this time at my 12 week scan and I'm convinced its due to long legs again!

ffallada · 20/10/2014 22:53

Hi
I'm 6' and hubby is 6'6'' (although I wouldn't have said either of us are super tall - just quite tall!!!), we were both large baby's (around the 9-10 pound Mark) which, I am told, is the marker of having a big baby so I was also worried about a mega baby and spoke to my midwife about it. She asked me what I was planning to do about it (cheeky lady) because, of course, there is absolutely nothing that can be done.
As it happens I've just had my 32 week scan (for another issue) and the baby was measuring exactly in the middle of the growth chart, so he is going to be just normal sized.
As cloud says, baby's size until the third trimester is standard as its in the third trimester that proper growth happens (unless you have gestational diabetes). Your dating scan won't be affected.
So please don't worry. From what I've read it's not the size of the baby that makes for a difficult birth anyway, it's the position of the beastie that counts.
Respectfully, Protocols have probably changed a little from your MIL's time.

Solasum · 20/10/2014 22:55

Two tall parents added up to a long and skinny DS here.

ffallada · 20/10/2014 22:57

Actually, I wouldn't even say that 6 foot is quite tall, and certainly not giant! Just tall.

Rockchick1984 · 20/10/2014 23:11

Just to point out as well - a long thin baby would still be far easier to push out than a smaller baby with a big head circumference so I honestly wouldn't stress about it Grin

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Bellyrub1980 · 21/10/2014 01:11

The scan will tell you head circumference, abdominal circumference and femur length. (The 12 week scan also tells you crown to rump length but won't be an accurate predictor of birth height or weight at that stage).

For my growth scabs they then do a calculation with these 3 figures which guesses the baby's weight.

So if you and your partners height is mainly down to the fact that you both have very long legs, then it may be a good indicator. However... If, like me, you are tall but with a very long body and proprtionately short legs it may not be because the scan will not take torso length into consideration.

I was a 10lb baby so I've been pretty paranoid about this... But my growth scan a few weeks ago predicted a baby of about 7lb. However, like I said, all my height is in my torso which the scan won't pick up on so I'm expecting a heavier baby than predicted.

I needed growth scans because my bump has measured below the 10th centile with the tape measure for most of my pregnancy. The midwife said this is really common in tall ladies, particularly those with long bodies. It sounded like she was basing this on anecdotal evidence rather than research, but it kind of made sense to me as the baby has more room to 'hide'. Im 39 weeks now and can still wear all my non-maternity tops and dresses! So if you're the same you may well find you end up having a growth scan further down the line which will give you a better indicator.

But yeah, I agree with the pp that head circumference is much more important and I've been watching this measurement like a hawk!!!

There is also an old wives tale that the width of your pelvis is the same as the length of your foot. So big feet often = wide pelvis. I have absolutely no idea if this is based on any science whatsoever but as a girl with size 9 feet im clinging onto all hope!!

Discopanda · 21/10/2014 02:08

I'm not tall but wanted to ask you ladies a question; my best friend (and bump buddy!) is very tall and last time round found it hard to find maternity clothes, especially jeans, that were long enough, are there any places that you found affordable maternity clothes that fitted?

SoftSheen · 21/10/2014 02:13

I'm 5'11'' and DD was born at 8lb 2oz- a bit bigger than average but by no means huge. She was very long and slender. My petite 5'4" friend, however, had a 9lb 12oz DS. So don't panic- there's not necessarily much correlation.

Apparently all babies are of a very similar size at the 12 week scan, irrespective of what their eventual weight will be. The 20 week scan is more variable so that might give you a bit more indication.

tomanyanimals · 21/10/2014 03:20

I'm 5"4 and my ds1 father was 6'4 and was 7'11 but very long he was straight into 3-6 month clothes as his legs didn't fit in anything smaller.
This time my dh is 6ft but baby is measuring bigger but he is stockier

Taura · 21/10/2014 04:42

discopanda I am 6' tall and bought trousers for work at Long Tall Sally (only available online). They were so long I had to cut a couple of inches off. Not sure about affordable though, but they often have sales esp for email subscribers.

Bellyrub1980 · 21/10/2014 04:46

I found H&M mat jeans really long, but then I don't have particularly long legs. My problem had been finding an over the bump panel that reaches above my belly button!

Sonics · 21/10/2014 07:18

There are a couple of websites that do a limited range of tall maternity clothes. If you google "tall maternity" then it brings them up. They're not high street shops. Have bought a couple of pairs of jeans and some work trousers from there. Also found some jogging bottoms which I've been really struggling to find in a suitable length but haven't bought them yet as they're £35 Hmm

All in all though tall maternity stuff is so hard to come by. Apparently tall ladies don't need clothes that fit when pregnant!

WhyOWhyWouldYou · 21/10/2014 08:31

I'm 5'10.5", I come from a very tall family (dads 6'5, my tallest brother just over 6'6 - babies all over 9lb - our families height is in the legs), my DH is 6'3. DS looked like he was going to be a big baby from scans - he was a not so whopping 7lb2 (8days overdue), but was incredibly long - all the midwives were shocked at how long he was but he was very skinny. He's 2.5yrs now and still a nightmare to buy clothes for, particularly trousers, he's always way too tall for the smaller size but far to skinny built for the next size to stay up (we have to keep putting new smaller elastic in trousers to keep them up).

Tbh as your tall, you should be proportionally more able to deal with birthing a big baby. Plus a long skinny one, which may get big birth size predictions due to the very long legs but not actually be heavy, will be far easier to birth than an average length baby built like a little sumo wrestler (just going by anecdotal evidence the people I know who are tall, tend to have skinnier babies, so even if they weigh a little more than average, the birth was straight forward).

12week dating scan isn't affected by whether baby will ultimately be big, they are all a reasonably set size. By 20weeks it can start to show a little, by 28weeks you can get a better idea (28weeks isn't a standard scan for most though).

To the person who asked about affordable tall maternity clothes - I could just about get away with 34" leg from ASDA - they were like gold dust in the maternity range though (I had to constantly look online and every time I was in the vicinity of an ASDA, i'd pop in to check maternity range)

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purplebiro · 21/10/2014 10:26

Thanks all - very helpful stuff. I do remember my mum saying I was long - so long that they were apparently about to whisk me away to check for dislocated hips immediately post delivery until my 6'5" dad walked into the delivery room and all became clear!!

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Cloud10 · 21/10/2014 11:50

I found some amazing maternity jeans in New Look with a 36 inch leg! They are over the bump, boot cut style in dark navy and were only £12. I bought 2 pairs and have lived in them. Their maternity leggings are also long. Dresses etc ridiculously short like everywhere else though!

Cloud10 · 21/10/2014 11:51

Thought the link might be helpful, I think it was these ones although the price has changed a bit www.newlook.com/shop/maternity/jeans/maternity-navy-overbump-bootcut-jeans-_309793941

flowersinthegarden · 21/10/2014 12:52

I'm 5'11 and found excellent long skinny jeans (both under and over bump) and tops in New Look. I'm now 36 weeks and have pretty much lived in them!

ladylala28 · 21/10/2014 19:19

Im 6ft 3 and husband is 5ft 3 ... hopefully our little one is in between Grin

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