Ive just been reading a few threads on here and something struck me. This is sooo thick but does everyone have anti-natal appointments? i only ask because with dd i had regular appointments, monthly, weekly etc...lots of growth scans and a dating scan, saw midwife regularly etc. but with ds 6 years ago i had none. I told my gp (different one to now) that i was pregnant and i saw him about 3 times during my 33 week pregnancy. Only listened to the baby's heartbeat once and i never saw a midwife, no dating scan, just the 20wk. Was this some mistake on their behalf or maybe an outdated way of thinking? I never realised at the time and when i told a friend the other week she was horrified. (ds was prem, delivered by emergency c section due to poor traces, discovered by a fluke really, and im wondering if this could have been picked up earlier?) As a first time mom and at only 19 i never thought that this might not be the norm at the time?