Hello,
DC3 is due in a few weeks. DCs 1 & 2 were both born at a stand alone midwife led unit (12 mins by ambulance to hospital). For both births I was upright, walking around, active etc throughout and this really worked for me.
This time I am going to give birth in a midwife led unit attached to the hospital since there have been some complications this pregnancy and I just don't feel comfortable at the thought of being in a separate unit this time.
My question though - are you allowed/encouraged to be mobile and active if you give birth at a hospital? For DC2's birth I wasn't even examined internally - the midwife said she could see I was doing fine and just let me listen to by body...can you refuse internal examinations in labour at a hospital? (Obviously I would let them do it if there was any hint of a problem with the baby).
Pushing stage - I do not want to be lying down - I was kneeling and upright for DC1 and 2 - do they try to make you lie down at hospital?
I am having a tour of the unit next week so hope to ask some of these questions then, but I just wondered what other people's experiences were.
TIA