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Pregnant after miscarriage and not happy :(

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DGmammy11 · 08/10/2014 19:35

I had a miscarriage 11 weeks ago. And was so excited about that pregnacy before i lost it. Now I am pregnant again and I don't feel happy at all. I am so sorry to people who are ttc after miscarriage and think I might be selfish and whatever but I just don't know what is wrong with me. Maybe because I was pregnant 9 weeks after miscarriage (which I took really hard) I'm
Not mentally ready for another baby yet. Even though I thought it was what I wanted. DH is dying to tell everyone and I just don't want anyone to know, I'm so down about it I can't believe I am actually thinking like this. Had anyone else thought like this before?

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SweepTheHalls · 08/10/2014 19:38

Its ok to feel like this, you have been through a lot, and you won't just stop grieving for the baby you lost because you have fallen pregnant again. Can you make an appointment to talk it through with your midwife? I think you are right to hold off telling the world until you have got your head around it.

ToriB34 · 08/10/2014 19:48

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