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Pregnant- Stressed & feel like I want to cut everything bad from my life! E.g people! Normal??

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Roseylee20 · 07/09/2014 10:20

I wrote a thread similar to this but I guessed it was way to long!
So this is a shortened version..
Basically since becoming pregnant (I'm 7+5) I just want to keep myself to myself and only let in my family and good friends- I've now realised how stressed I actually was before! I'm stuck in a job I despise-working for my partners family who I dislike and really they dislike me- (what can I do about leaving whilst pregnant?? Help) and all of the people that cause drama I just want to distance myself from! This is what I've always felt like but now it's become so strong! I feel like I want to protect my baby from people like this. Is this normal?! I feel like I also want to change my mobile number and only give it to a select few people- help me! How can I leave my job, too? Sad

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Kent1982 · 07/09/2014 18:53

I think your normal I'm 13 weeks and i have no tolerance at all now, the slightest thing hacks me off that I would have laughed off or turned a blind eye to I just can't, sorry no advice available from me as I'm turning into a monster, I really shouldn't say this but there are certain people I don't want influencing my child ( bit negative and critical)and I think there is no point in raising it now as I will come across like unreasonable but slowly I'm going to sort it out. Don't worry you will sort it out I'm sure

Roseylee20 · 08/09/2014 09:32

Thanks kent1982 I feel exactly the same! With the influencing I couldn't if said it better myself. It's making me into a monster too but I've realised it's what I felt all along, although now it feels a lot stronger because I have a real reason to actually feel like this! I hope you get it sorted too Thanks

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ThinkIveBeenHacked · 08/09/2014 09:36

Oh god it doesnt get better either. A colleague said to me the other day "You are quite an intolerant person arent you?"

The truth is that im intolerant even when not pg, its just that I seem to lose the abiliry to deal with it when pg.

Just bed down and avoid everyone over the next few weels as you do have quite a good excuse.

Roseylee20 · 08/09/2014 09:39

Hi thinkivebeenhacked I am the same as you too- like I've said it's things I've always felt- I've never been tolerant of 'bad' people or negative people etc.. It's just now I have the reason to not be! I'm in home a lot now resting, and have chosen not to go with my partner every single time he visits his family (which are only in the next village) because these are the negative people I don't want to be around! X

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