Ok this might be a rant and a chance to see if I'm over reaacting! My brother is in his 30s and lives at home has no desire to move out etc work internet sleep can't even work the cooker or gets piss if I suggest he washes up for once, I've been staying a few days a week with mh son as my dh is on training other end of the country amd I'm due on Monday I'll be staying at my mums for a few weeks as my partner is training for promotion so don't mind, I was chatting to my mum late last night he butted in and said I'm having nothing to do with Tabi I'm sticking with my mate, he needs a constant I'm not even goinf to acknowledge her. At this I exploded and said it was unfair bias and unstabling for ds. I want everyone to be fair and constant. Also when my ds was born 4 years ago he bought a new car 2 days after my son was born I jokingsly said this time to my parents hell buy a house this time just u wait.guess what yep he's bought a house, out right I asked if he was finally moving out he laighed no course not I'm dyingb in this one! So he has just bought it to be knee jerky and to look big I even asked if he was letting it and he said no they'd ruin it so its stayimg empty I'm not jealous of him at all I find him sad and is wasting his life. Have I over reacted or am I right in what I said. Mum knows we aren't as close as we were and easily fall out