Paranoid, scared, irrational 12 week scan woes

[Davidtennantmistress]

:( I should be happy, scan is Thursday 8.30 am nice and early will be 12+2.

I've had 8 pgs and two children. M.cs have been typically 8 weeks. We've agreed this is our last try we can't go through another m.c. I feel like sitting and crying. Last m.c I had a dream at 6 weeks about a dead cat in my arms. (When bean died) I keep having awful dreams there's something wrong or noting there. Irrational as we saw a heart beat at 7 weeks just so scared. Need to keep positive for hubs.

I've got bacterial vaginiosis and had antibiotics only half dose though as it made me physically vomit. Worried that's come back again is going to case a m,c my sister in law had a m.c quite literally one year one week ago she was 12+2 to the date.

Is it all coincidence? Not sure how to make it through the next 48 hours and really wishing we had another early scan but hubs refused a private one as to be fair we can't overly afford it having just moved, and the epu said all was fine strong healthy heartbeat.

I'm still sickly hormonal and boobs hurt but no major symptoms like there was until about a week ago.

By the sounds of your symptoms everything sounds nice and reassuring, I know it's so hard not to stress especially when your scan is so close. Just relax next few days and as hard as it is try not to worry.

It's not a surprise that you're so worried. Do whatever you need to do to get through the next few days to this next milestone. Lots of deep breathing, time out for a walk in the sunshine. Be kind to yourself, and I hope things go well.

Yes it is all coincidence, but no wonder you are worried with everything you have been through.

I had no symptoms except sore boobs, which vanished at about 10 weeks and all was fine at my 12 week scan. I think for many it does tend to settle at about your stage.

Try and keep occupied. It will feel like a long wait, but there is nothing you can do meantime. I really hope all goes well for you and you get some reassurance on Thursday

I've had 3 MC before this pregnancy and even though we saw our baby on Friday I'm still worried for our next scan next week. I don't think that fear will ever leave, just have to learn to cope with it and try and look at the positives instead.
My constant sickness disappeared at about 9.5 / 10 weeks too but everything is fine. Keep going, you're nearly there! x

thanks all, i'm trying honestly! even though I want to sit and cry bloody hormones. this PG is completely different to all of my others well most similar to DS1 many moons ago. just sicker.

Fingers crossed for you!

Mine is today. Popping my pants.

good luck becca.