Don't know what to do...

[Heartbroken2014]

I have just found out that my husband has been texting one of his work colleagues all night with very suggestive messages about them fancying each other and wanting to sleep together. Nothing has actually happened but we live next door to work and she is about ALL the time while I go off to work for 12 hours a day. How am I ever meant to trust the two of them together? I feel like my whole world has crumbled and don't know how I'll ever trust him. Am I overreacting? I am 37 weeks today and was getting so excited about becoming a family and feel like he's ruined everything. I just don't know what to do. Help!

No advice sorry, OP, but do you want to ask MNHQ to move this to the Relationships board? You might get some better answers there than under Pregnancy. Not a situation you want to be in right now

Poor you :-(

How did you find out? Have you confronted him yet? I'm concerned that there's a potential "why were you going through my inbox?" argument to detract from the real issue.

I agree you should get this moved to relationships.

Have you told him you know? I expect he will make excuses and minimise his behaviour, it didn't mean anything, it was 'just' this or 'only' that. So be prepared for him to down play it to make you feel like you are over reacting. If you looked through his phone he'll also try and turn it round on to you.

Don't let him do this, it's not on, his behaviour is unacceptable. You're just about to have a baby, the last thing he should be doing is texting some other women.