Shelby that is exactly what they are like. They tell really pointed stories about other people who, like you say, are allegedly scrubbing floors or back in full time work within a very short space of time.
Bomber, I know. It probably was very silly not to stand up for myself. I tend not to do this, especially with my pils. I can tell they don't particularly rate me and have been very keen not to fuel the fire, so to speak. I also very seriously underestimated how emotional, hormonal and vulnerable I would feel after giving birth. I simply didn't feel equal to any sort of confrontation, however minor. I appreciate that not everyone feels like this after giving birth, but this was where I was. Hence I am trying to be as prepared as possible to avoid a repeat of this situation. I think I might feel similarly emotional, so want to have all my ducks in a row, even down to phrases/ responses so I can respond/deal with the situation more assertively.