Oh shit!

ScouseBird8364 · 2014-06-24T19:23:30+00:00

[shock] I'm in complete shock! Day 37 of cycle today, and still no P, so decided to get test, even though I always check my fertile / ovulation days and had sex once last month, test was positive and I did not expect that at all! we have two boys (6 & almost 4), but last 2 pregnancies ended with MMC and early complete MC, so although I am feeling a mixed bag of emotions tonight, I'm also absolutely terrified [sad] I'm utterly shocked, as a 3rd baby was not in our plans. I'm an OU Psychology student, and also my hub's carer (he had a Stroke) so my head's a bit mashed at the min. I don't want to get 5 years down the line and regret not having a third, plus my hub's completely anti-abortion so we are going to go ahead, if all goes well, I'm just now going to be obsessed with checking everytime I wipe now! [sad]

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ScouseBird8364 · 24/06/2014 20:23

I'm in complete shock! Day 37 of cycle today, and still no P, so decided to get test, even though I always check my fertile / ovulation days and had sex once last month, test was positive and I did not expect that at all!

we have two boys (6 & almost 4), but last 2 pregnancies ended with MMC and early complete MC, so although I am feeling a mixed bag of emotions tonight, I'm also absolutely terrified

I'm utterly shocked, as a 3rd baby was not in our plans. I'm an OU Psychology student, and also my hub's carer (he had a Stroke) so my head's a bit mashed at the min.

I don't want to get 5 years down the line and regret not having a third, plus my hub's completely anti-abortion so we are going to go ahead, if all goes well, I'm just now going to be obsessed with checking everytime I wipe now!

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Peppapigisnotmyname · 24/06/2014 21:33

I had my DS through IVF and thought I was done and dusted, couldn't face any more treatment. When he was one I got pregnant naturally with twins but it was mmc. Got pregnant again a year later, again mmc. Three months after that I got pregnant again, all three naturally, how bizarre after I'd tried to get pregnant for eight years with no success!! Anyway, that time, I was scared, very anxious time, but I got through it and now have dd who is five.

Try to stay calm, be kind to yourself, what will be, will be, good luck xx

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ScouseBird8364 · 25/06/2014 02:27

Peppa, that is very reassuring, thank you so strange how our bodies work isn't it?! mentally, I feel like I want to grow old with three children, I guess a part of me yearns for those babies we lost, I think I'm quite scared too, because it's been almost 4 years now, my biggest worry is how I'll cope, as I tend to get very stressed very easily as it is x

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