Hiya
Before I start (and before criticism comes crashing down upon me) I'm not actually bothered if I have a boy or a girl, a healthy baby is really all I care about!
We decided (through pure curiosity) to find out the gender at the 21 week scan. The sonographer was brilliant, and gave us so much detail about our baby's lovely little body I'm still going off into day dreams thinking about it.
Anyhoo, he said the baby was a girl and was as certain as he could ever be. He explained that of course there's a small failure rate on these predictions and in some cases the willy takes a little longer to show itself. Fair enough we thought! We would be delighted either way, so it still feels like there's a small element of surprise which is okay by us.
However!! A few days later and the grandmothers have already spent a fortune on pink, flowery things! It's all sitting on the spare bed looking very girly. (I've not removed a single label just in case it needs to be returned)
We plan to have a 4d scan at 30 weeks and I was just curious to know, can we be pretty certain of the gender by then? We don't plan to by any gender specific stuff until that scan just to be sure... But will hold off till the birth if the failure rate is exactly the same.
Obviously I'll ask the sonographer during the 4d scan but have to wait 10 weeks for that!