DH is a blab!

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DH and I got our BFP last week and I'm 6+2 just now with our first. We agreed not to tell anyone because it's such early days although we had a friend staying at the weekend so had to tell her (the refusal of wine would have given it away!).

Anyway DH blurted out tonight that he told his whole family (maw, paw, bro) yesterday! He never said anything about it yesterday when I asked him how his day was and I'm really annoyed at him. Partly because I wasn't there (I would have liked to share our happy news together esp as it's our first) partly because we agreed not to and partly because my own mum doesn't know yet (she's not the best at keeping secrets and I don't want everyone in my hometown knowing!).

Am I being unreasonable? I'm a bit of a hormonal mess just now but do genuinely think I have grounds to be annoyed. What do you think?

xxx

I'd be a bit annoyed, I think, but he's clearly excited. It is a bit of an odd feeling though, keeping such a huge secret. If I were you, I'd tell your mum now the other side of the family know.

It is annoying when you have both agreed not to tell and one person can't keep quiet, my DH did the same (both times!) and although I was cross at first I quickly realised it's because he was so excited he just couldn't hold in the joy if you see what I mean!!

It is annoying, but it's done now. Don't tell your mum to even things up if she can't be trusted not to tell everyone.

It is horrible and a bit thoughtless, I suppose its moments that you want to share that have been wiped away. DH told his family and a bunch of randoms while I wax in the loo in a pub for Sunday lunch. I was fuming but couldn't give a reaction as I was actually there. Then for dd2 he told a bloke from work who had been eagle eyed at my non drinking before any friends or family. He didn't even like the bloke.

I was annoyed at the time and I trust him with no secrets what so ever. He is a huge blabber mouth.