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char94 · 08/05/2014 14:24

Hey everyone, I'm 19 and I've been having problems with my lady bits since my first ever period. Irregular, excrutiating pain, extremely heavy, when I was 15 I got told I had PCOS and that it would be extremely hard for me to conceive. I was gutted as I've always pictured my future with little kids running around :( last year I had 2 miscarriages, both very early on in the pregnancy at only 6-7 weeks gone, but still extremely sad :/ about 18 months ago I had to go for a checkup and scan in hospital, and since then my periods have been a lot lighter, still quite painful and regular. I am now with my boyfriend who I've been with since February, im currently 2 weeks late to come on my period and I'm experiencing some very strange things, I've had a strange brown discharge, bad belly pains, headaches, the biggest change though is the fact that my boobs were an A cup but have shot up to over-spilling a B cup. I've never had back breaking boobs as I'm only small framed. I went to the doctors today and told her about all these things, and the fact I've done 4 pregnancy tests in the past 2 weeks where 2 came back as positive and 2 we're negative. She said than I am more than likely pregnant and to give it 2 more weeks and do another test, if it comes back as positive then to make an appointment with the midwife. She reckons I'm only 2-3 weeks gone, but I don't want another miscarriage, and I especially don't want to break my boyfriends heart as he really wants babies :( how do I avoid losing another baby and my boyfriend at the same time?

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sidonie1 · 08/05/2014 16:28

Hi there, sounds exciting. Unfortunately there's not much you can do to prevent miscarriage apart from take care of yourself, staying off alcohol, etc and getting rest. Wishing you all the best. Re: boyfriend, he's absolutely not worth wasting your time with if he would want to break up if you had a miscarriage. I know plenty of people with PCOS who have had healthy babies so don't be disheartened. X

hartmel · 08/05/2014 17:49

I was diagnosed with pcos 4 years ago.. And currently have a healthy 8 month old boy and I'm 16 weeks pregnant with #2

I'm sorry about your previous loss..
But as the previous poster said. If your boyfriend is going to leave you because you miscarried than he is wasting your time.. If he truly loves you he will be at your side at any time

I hope I can whisper a congrats and wish you all the best...
Try to relax and think about something else. I know not easy done as said. Been there.. Smile

Geminiwitch22 · 08/05/2014 20:40

Pcos, graves, pregnant with over 6 weeks to go and they will look after you. As they've said if he has a go he's not worth your time, I wish you all the best.

char94 · 08/05/2014 20:52

I just don't want to disappoint him, he's all I have :/ I know he wouldn't leave me if I miscarried but it's still the fact he'll be upset and I'm continuously breaking down because I don't feel like a woman. Women we're put on the earth to reproduce and I can't even do that properly :/ I'm extremely stressed out at the minute as my doctor said earlier because my blood pressure was sky high, I'm trying to chill out but now there's an even bigger thing to think about, I've always wanted a baby but it just seems it's come at the wrong time, I'm meant to start uni in September, I just feel like I'm moaning now lol. X
Ps. Thankyou for your lovely messages :)

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