Dh won't have sex anymore

[buffythebarbieslayer]

We've had a pretty good sex life so far but in the last couple of weeks he's been reluctant to come too close and certainly seems off sex.

I'm 38 weeks and he feels the baby is putting him off suddenly. He's actually found me sexy up until now.

Problem is there's unlikely to be any sex for a while after baby. Argh, feeling horny as well

I'm in the exact same situation at 37 weeks. I find it really upsetting even though I know a huge waddling ball isn't exactly sexy!

Have you talked to him? It gets kind of difficult when you're very big, perhaps he is worried about hiring the baby?
Maybe you need to try some different positions?

Ffs hurting* not hiring :-/

Ffs hurting* not hiring :-/

Sorry I've just reread and see the comment about baby putting him off.

If he's just not feeling it then maybe he can just help you out in other ways? Doesn't have to be piv

We haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant! Make DH "feel funny" It did really get to me, made me feel like just a baby maker. But doesn't really bother me that much now.

My DH was like this when we did DTD I felt I had guilted him into it. Now 4 weeks post partum we still haven't arghhhh! I'm the horniest I've ever been but he's keeping his distance...I know it's to let me heal and recover etc but I want to get down and dirty

I'm in the same situation too, we DTD regularly up until about 3 weeks ago and nothing since I'm now 35 weeks and the size of a house so I probably wouldn't want to have sex with me either! I think me complaining about how low the baby is and that it feels like it's going to shoot out any minute doesn't help ha!

We've tried sex, I'm 36 weeks with PGP - it's crap, we just can't find a comfy position.

OH said it was rubbish towards the end the last time too and I kept pestering him for it when I was overdue!

He said I could just give him a blow job instead... doesn't seem like there is much in that for me! ;)

Ugh me too! 33 weeks and DH won't touch me with a barge pole! He's usually nagging me for it. I told him to take a look at my foof the other day (it's a bit puffy) and he actually turned his head away and shut his eyes so he wouldn't get a glimpse! Heaven forbid he saw anything!
At first I felt a bit relieved as the pressure was off but now I'm a bit offended!
Gemmal88 - mine wants a BJ too. Oh the romance!!!!

My partner has been scared to come near me since we discovered i had a cervical ectropion. It makes me feel disconnected from him. I feel your pain and completely empathise.

Hahahar....i dont mind bj....i find it a turn on lol plus id rarther i please hubby Than he sit there with a porno lol i blame my ex for that though...controlling b***d as thats all he ever did and never gave me a thought, made me feel like i was worthless and useless at anything it did.....even though hed denie what he was doing ^.~

I'm 38 weeks too. Partner willing... Maybe I should rent him out? Lol

S seriously though, blow jobs are fine, but I'd expect it to be reciprocated!

Might try the blow job route. They can never resist!