I'm 18+4 weeks pregnant with dc2. Dc1s labour was horrific and ended with severe pelvic damage which meant I've been having weekly physio since he was born (he is 14months).
Due to the damage from dc1 I have had SPD almost from the moment I got pregnant again (that's how I guessed I was pregnant) and it's making me so low at the minute. I am in constant pain, can't walk for long without my back going into spasm and the pain is just getting worse. My physio is brilliant but I know there's very little they can do to help. I have a body support but that doesn't seem to help.
My dh is wonderful and is so supportive and does so much for me and DS but I worry about how the SPD will affect our relationship because I am so miserable most of the time and just want to cry (which I do 3/4 times a day). My mum stayed with us recently and was shocked to see how much pain I'm in on a day to day basis.
I don't know why I'm posting really. I guess because there's no one I can talk to about this in real life, no one really understands. The chances are I'll be in a wheelchair before 25 weeks. I am having a c section this time, that has already been confirmed.
Sorry for the long post, just needed to have a rant somewhere!!