Hi there. I am 39 (will be 40 when it comes along) have recently found out I am 3 months pregnant with my first child. Of course I am delighted and ecstatic for the future - I thought I was never going to start a family due to my age and trouble finding Mr. Right.
A few things though, I am not married to the father, nor do I actually live with him. Our relationship is far from serious as we've only been together for 5 months, and we've done 'it' for the first time, which has resulted in a pregnancy.
I told him I was expecting our first child, and not surprisingly was he shocked because of our unique circumstances. We discussed abortion and adoption, and how we would raise a baby if we were to keep it. We even thought about moving in together, though we aren't even ready to do that let alone have children together!.
When I google unwed parents, or unexpected pregnancies or the like, it comes up with teenage pregnancies, and if I look at unexpected pregnancies in your 30's/40's, it comes up with parents who have teenagers that are expecting children, So I was just wondering if anyone is in a similar position as me?