Im due a planned c section in 3 weeks and starting to panic slightly about recovery now. I will have help for a maximum of 2 weeks as my dp is self employed in the early days of starting up a new business and we cant physically afford for him to take any longer off. Then my mum can take a week off to help me out and after that ile be on my own all day every day.
I already have 2 dc who need taking to school and nursery which requires 3 journeys of there and back each day so rralistically i will have to be driving after 2 weeks or i cant get them there at all. I dont even have friends who live close by who can help with school drop offs, etc.
I was feeling confident about managing after the first couple of weeks but now im worrying that i might not find it as easy as all that so id love to hear from others who have been in similar situations and managed ok.