The thing is, I'm around 11 weeks pregnant, iv already got two little girls aged 3 and 5. I'm so weak and sick all of the time, I have no energy and would love 5 mins peace lol. it's really hard having the girls run around wantin me to play, askin me to do thngs. Aswel as all the housework and jobs I need to do. However I just keep telling myself won't blong before I start and feel better again! But this isn't the reason I am writing, the father of children/my partner is really giving me a hard time, he thinks because he works mon-fri he shudnt hav to help me out or make things easier for me? If I ask him to run th bath for th kids I get nothing but a mouthful, he's always talking down to me, talking to me asif I'm stupid, calling me lazy and useless as it takes me longer to do household chores, if I tell the children to do something like get in the bath or get ready he's telling them the opposite so thy have no respect what I say or do, I spoke to my Gp as I'm at a all time low, they have referred me to a councillor, I have explained all this to my partner in the hope that he will back off abit going on at me, but he just comes out with 'and', and starts complaining about something els he's never interested in anything I have to say he always ignores me or starts going on about something els, I havnt got the energy to argue with him so I just let him get on with it, however it's been that bad I even thought of having an abortion and hate myself for even thinking this, and hate him for not supporting me! I really think it's time for me to leave him, however I did think it may just be thinkin about myself, maybe I am bein lazy, as normally I hav my house sparkling and am on top of all my jobs, i just don't know. I am so unhappy I cry all the time to myself, I feel like I am going through this pregnancy all on my own without any support from him, it's getting to the point where I don't love him, I have just had enough of him belittling me, but do I leave him and take kids or stay with him for the sake of the kids?