pain with bleeding - always a bad sign ?

[wheelybug]

Am 7 weeks tomorrow - yesterday had brown discharge which turned reddish in the evening. Nothing overnight - went to gp this morning and have scan booked for friday. Was remaining positive as had no pain but this afternoon I have started to get some pain.

Am assuming the worst but just wondered if anyone had any experience that could give me a glimmer of hope or should I prepare for the inevitable ?

wheelybug - so sorry to hear of your news - i hope physically things come back to normal asap and emotionally you seem very 'together' with ehat has happened - do let yourself let go if you need to as sometimes however 'lucky' you are with a good mc the implications are still hard to absorb.

Caitlinsmummy - I am so pleased you are OK I hope you bleeding settles down a little bit to give you a more stress free time ( if possible)

Great news caitlinsmummy - I really am pleased for you and good news you're a week further on too, one week less worry !

Trace - thanks. I hope you're recovering well too ! Perhaps we'll meet again on another antenatal board !

Chitownlady - I read your thread whilst searching for info so hope you are recovering well too. I know it probably doesn't make you feel any better but its good to read of others who have been through this too although obviously I'd rather no one had to go through it (hope that makes sense). I think at the moment i'm just relieved that we know now - the limbo was horrid, I think I'll be up and down for a while.

and Shhhh thanks again for all your words on this thread - you've been great. I'm sure we will try in the not too distant future.

Thankyou WB, i really am so sorry this happened to you, it is a terrible time and i hope you are getting the support and love you need xx

no probs wb. Reading my last thread I don't want to sound as though I was pushing it aside (the mc) or making it seem a breeze iykwim. I re-read it and thought it may be read incorrectly...

Just wanted you to feel more positive iykwim.

Like ctl said, you sound quite upbeat about it and I hope this continues although please be prepared for a possible change esp when your hormones change. I went through lots of different emotions. Some good some bad really bad and looking back I can see how awful I was BUT you know what I don't regret those feeling because I believe I had to get through them to get where I am today.

It took me ages (months) to talk to friends who were pregnant or even due the same time as our baby would have been and I was quite nasty to them BUT I didn't mean to be..it was because of my loss.I am in fact quite good friends with this said person now so that says alot .

I think what I'm saying is, to relax and to not hate what may happen over the next few months.There are plenty of us mner's who have exprienced what you are going through now and who will be more than willing to speak to you here or via CAT. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} XX

Thanks shh - I didn't read your earlier post like that at all, I took it as it was meant. Thanks for the offer of CAT-ing etc...

Thanks for the warning on the mood changes. I am already welling up and spilling over at little things which is to be expected I guess so will expect more of it.