I realise now that is was a bad move getting a pup, but its too late as my kids love him now.
I am strict with him, he isn't allowed on the couch, and as soon as he put a foot wrong eg. Sniffs at the kids food, licks the toddlers face, tries to jump up etc, he gets a tap on the thigh and straight into bed. (He gets praised/treated for all positives too)
One of the problems is my partner doesn't equally discaplin, which is very frustrating, and makes it harder.
Also potty training is harder than expected, as he's still pooing and weeing everywer, he does go outside often but he refuses to do anything wen its too cold or raining. And as I'm feathering my nest, I can smell wee everywer and the thought of bringing baby into a smelly house is getting me down.
My 2 year old constantly annoys the pup, chases him everywer and went leave him alone, sometimes hurts him too, could this make the pup nasty or would it do the opposite and make him good with babies/kids. I'm quite confident that he's going to be a guard dog to the bby rather than a threat but would never ever risk leaving them alone.
Every one keeps telling me I'm just panicking because I'm heavily pregnant and hormonal, and things seem worse than they are at the mo.. I sure hope they r right x