Spook - I'm so sorry that you have had a molar. Do you know whether it is a complete or partial molar yet?
I had a complete molar in 2001. You'd better get used to the idea of hospitals for a bit longer. You will have to have an evacuation of the womb, which is okay - you might be lucky and get it done in day surgery.
Then you have regular monitoring, usually via a postal service to one of the centres of excellence in Sheffield and London. These last up to 6 months with bloods at first then falling back to urine testing after the first couple of months.
It was a total pain when it was bloods monitoring as you have to go to hospital to get the bloods done, and there is a certain way they must be taken and dealt with, which the hospital needs to be reminded of everytime. I ended walking the sample to pathology myself each time and giving them the same instructions every time I went!
Other than that, your HCG levels should start to fall quite quickly after the evacuation, and should be more or less normal within 6 weeks. I found those early weeks hard as the hormones were still stratospherically high with all the mood swings that brings, and I'd lost the pregnancy too!
Just try and take things easy for a while. And do let me know if there are any questions you want answers to - I'll do my best to help
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