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13 weeks- feeling fucking loony

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somedizzywhore1804 · 01/01/2014 13:30

Hi all

Just looking for some reassurance really. Am 13 + 5 and seem to have hit some new hormones this past week. I'm angry, I'm unreasonable, I'm weepy, I'm just basically a nightmare.

In the past 24hrs I've cried because:

  1. it's raining
  2. PILs are hosting a New Year's Day dinner I don't want to go to
  3. it's cold
  4. I don't want to go to work on Monday
  5. I've got backache
  6. I couldn't find a pen
  7. Netflix wasn't working

I could add even more to that mad list- I'm the constant tear monster ATM. I keep crying at the rain and cold because the weather is really getting me down which is hugely unreasonable as it's January.

Please someone tell me I'm normal and this will pass. I had horrible HG which put me in hospital before Xmas and now I feel I've swapped one horrible thing for another.

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RaRa1988 · 01/01/2014 13:38

It's normal, unfortunately. It's been on and off for me, and I did cry over a really sweet old lady at work the other day Blush, but by and large I've been much better over the past few weeks. I'm 17 weeks now, so hopefully your moods will follow the same pattern!

summerbaby2014 · 01/01/2014 16:48

I do think it's normal unfortunately, and it'll pass.

I cried in waitrose once because it was too big and I couldn't find the crumpets.

And again in westfield car park, it was too big and I couldn't find the car!

Basically anything that's different/difficult/doesn't work. Much better now though

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 01/01/2014 17:18

Quite normal! Grin
Just be careful if the rage hits! Ive had to step back from myself a few times this PG to get some perspective. I didn't have this with the first 2, (youngest is now 14) and I didn't cope very well. DP and I actually split up at one point because I was a bit of an axe murderer!

somedizzywhore1804 · 01/01/2014 17:59

I'm not quite that bad yet Saggy but I will bare it in mind. I'm just so fed up and I couldn't tell you why. It's like swinging between rage and misery. I feel really sorry for myself and just want to go to sleep til the nights get lighter. Maybe I've got SAD!!!

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Expectingtwins1975 · 01/01/2014 18:37

I'm 13+5 and I'm the same ... A total nutcase, I get the rage more than anything else ... Is like I know I'm being totally unreasonable sometimes but don't seem to be able to stop myself. OH has just accepted the madness I think.

SweetPea86 · 01/01/2014 20:50

It's normal I've been loney from about 5 weeks I'm now 24 weeks

Today I went in to a screaming rage at my hubby coz he didn't put his indicator on in car. And when I said use your indicator he said my car I do what I want. Well that would piss me off at the best of times.
Made him drive home went upstairs and cried for an hour. When he dared come to see if I was ok I screamed at him for 5 mins and then totally broke down. ( while he was down stairs he cleaned up for me)

Feel utterly stupid now and poor fella just let me vent then told me he loved me and give me a cuddle.

Totally ruined 2014 first day. I'm a BITCH I hate being like this.

Emberlina76 · 01/01/2014 21:23

I have the rage. I'm 19+1 and I've had it the whole time and although at times it's been unbelievable and comical now it's worrying me and really depressing me. It's very draining being this wound up and angry all of the time. Everyone gets I my nerves. DH is bearing the brunt if it. I'm genuinely evil. This week I have also started to feel very down where everything makes me feel annoyed and wound up. I'm scared that I'm going to have this baby and not feel any different! Genuinely scared! X

MyNameIsWinkly · 01/01/2014 21:28

I'm 14 + 6 and think that everything on your list is a perfectly good reason to cry! My weepiness seems to be easing a little, thank fuck, but I have cried because
DH was nice to me
We were caught in some traffic
It was raining
I didn't want to go to tesco
I ran out of sellotape wrapping Christmas presents
And sometimes for no reason at all

Ah, pregnancy. It's a beautiful time Hmm

BEEwitched · 02/01/2014 00:31

it's the effing effing hormones. I'm 19 weeks and I spent most of last night teary eyed, and this evening I got really depressed over, well, all sorts of inconsequential worries.

DH went to bed with me to comfort me, and I spent an hour either crying my eyes out or crying/shaking with uncontrollable laughter (there was nothing funny going on), I just switched from one to the other without a break and couldn't stop. My poor husband didn't know whether to be really alarmed or laugh along...

Now I can't sleep because I feel all used up and weird.

somedizzywhore1804 · 02/01/2014 18:18

thanks everyone. I am feeling better today but have got a new session of morning sickness kicked off yesterday so I think I must have got a new busload of hormones in this week!! I can't wait to go to work on Monday and deal with a load of hormonal teens.... I reckon if any of them kick off there will just be too many hormones for the room to take and the classroom may well explode.

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McFox · 02/01/2014 18:21

You are not alone! Things I have cried about in the past few weeks include my DH not liking Winnie the Pooh, and coconut flavoured popcorn Smile

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