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Episiotomy with ventouse last time, am I ok to do it again????

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Hellymummy · 30/12/2013 22:41

My first labour was an horrendous nitemare that lasted 12 hours! My little darling had her arm stuck up to her cheek and wasn't moving!!! In the end I was cut, had a ventouse delivery and stitched back up! Am I ok having a normal vaginal birth again? The old cut won't reopen will it? Nobody has said anything to me????

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Tommy · 30/12/2013 22:43

I had hideous first (induced) labour and DS1 was eventually hauled out with forceps, episiostomy etc etc
18 months later, DS2 slipped out in 2 hours Smile
Go for it
good luck

elliepac · 30/12/2013 22:44

Hopefully here to reassure. I had an horrific labour with DS (back to back) and episiotomy and ventouse. 4 years later, DD was born completely naturally in just over 2 hours labour, 20 mins pushing and only a slight graze, no stitching, no cutting and no intervention necessary at all. A lovely birth in fact.

Fingers crossed the same happens for you. Good Luck!

duggarkid20 · 30/12/2013 22:46

My first sounded very much like yours and my second labour was so so different. DD came out after 10 mins pushing, I tore a little but was absolutely fine. Good luck!

FastWindow · 30/12/2013 22:48

Yep second births are usually easier and quicker. 12 hours isn't that long by comparison. I had episiotomy and forceps after induction first time, took 15 hours. Second birth three hours 45, still episiotomy, still stitches, but healed much better.

You'll be fine!! I expect no one has mentioned it because no one sees an issue. Ask your mw I guess. Or your mat unit. Good luck!

FastWindow · 30/12/2013 22:50

And I don't believe the old cut does reopen, scar tissue being stronger than normal tissue iyswim.

Thesebootsweremadeforwalking · 30/12/2013 23:04

Both mine were born with ventouse assistance, after episiotomy the first time around. It was ok, though I tore along the old scar line the second time, it didn't cause any major problem and all was healed within a few weeks.

Thesebootsweremadeforwalking · 30/12/2013 23:06

Forgot to add - I didn't feel the tear with DC2, on gas and air only - so not a really horrible experience.

Hawkmoth · 30/12/2013 23:14

While my mum assures me that her episiotomy opened when she had her second, mine didn't. I didn't even need stitches with my second or, much bigger, third.

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