I was shocked to find out in the area I live they offer all women regardless of age, a sweep @ 38 weeks! I am 44 & had my perfect little baby girl 12 weeks ago, she is my fifth baby & this is my second marriage so I have children, 24 years, 19, 18, 2 & a half & now 12 weeks. Had all normal & natural births with the first three, just with gas & air & a wonderful home birth with my 3rd.
When I had my 4th @ 41 I wanted another home birth but was so terrified by what the medical professionals were telling me with the risk to still birth, I ended up changing my mind @ 40 weeks & agreeing to a sweep, I went into labour 3 days later whilst waiting at the hospital to be induced, which I fully intended to refuse but was told to attend the appointment anyway. I was so terrified of my baby being still born, I couldn't cope with the pain & had the pain relief meptid, this just took the edge off, not much of a difference for me & made me feel out of it & out of control, baby ended up being delivered with the crash team because his heart rate was declining, all in all the labour was less than 3 hours but for me the whole thing was just horrible.
So for baby no 5 we hired a doula for some hypnobirthing & support & told my consultant I did not want to be induced under any circumstances. My doula was lovely & would provide me with information on older mothers & research on placental failure which showed this was not a risk in the older mother or after 40 weeks, which was all very reassuring but I still was reluctant to ignore my consultants medical opnion as she really did seem to care, my consultant also put me at risk for postpartum bleeding & clots from varicose veins, purely due to my age & even though this worried me some what, it made me feel that if they were looking out for these things then that could only be a good thing & I felt more cared for unlike my previous pregnancy, I was told about the stillborn risk @ 16 wks with no extra care & sent home to worry about it.
This time I made sure I was under the care of obstetrician Penny Law who is my gynaecologist, but also has obstetric clinics at the Portland & my local hospital. With this pregnancy I reassured myself that I was fit & well, I am very fortunate never to have had any major medical problems, baby related or otherwise, ( I only saw Penny Law for bladder weakness due to having four babies) & I didn't see why I was more at risk than a pregnant woman half my age who might be overweight who drank & smoked.
I was adamant I was not going to be induced. From 38 weeks I went in for regular monitoring but still hadn't delivered by 40+3, so agreed with consultant that if I hadn't delivered by 41 wks then she would give me a sweep & in the meantime I was monitored ever other day on daycare & told to keep a check on the baby's movements, this was fine to do during the day but my anxiety seemed to rise at night & hardly slept as I wanted to check baby was moving, twice I ended up at the hospital early in the morning because baby hadn't moved during the night, staff seemed really pleased that I did this & were really reassuring, although I was in a state of sheer panic at the time, turns out baby likes her sleep, especially at night & still does!
So by the time I got to 41 wks I'd had enough & although the consultant was happy to do whatever made me happier, ie: constant monitoring, I requested a sweep, I ended up with 3 sweeps & nothing! I was admitted & booked in to be induced for the next day, I was terrified but felt it was the best thing to do, I didn't want to put my baby at risk & I couldn't carry on as I was, so anxious, in the end it turned out to be the best decision, after some research & against my doulas advice I asked my consultant for an early epidural, never ever having or wanting one before, believing them just to cause more problems, but I knew that with inducement, the pain is worse & does not build naturally like a labour should.
My cervix, probably due to previous pregnancies & the 3 shows was ready for my waters to be broken without the need for pesseries. & because I was confident in & knew how my body labours, I knew once my waters broke everything would happen quite quickly, so an hour after my waters were broken, the pain was becoming unbearable, had the epidural, all that faffing around with that seemed to take ages, but once sorted apart from a side effect of itching, it was great, could still feel pressure from the contractions & my baby moving down but no pain, my midwife was brillantly supportive as was my doula & my husband & I really enjoyed the experience of breathing my baby out, it was like it all happened in slow motion.
She was born just over 2 hrs from water breaking, happy throughout labour & birth & latched on to feed beautifully after birth. Had no post partum heavy bleeding & have suffered no clots since or ill effects from epidural & due to pushing slowly, no further, damage to pelvic floor.
Apologise for epic post, just wanted to cover everything that might be relevant to you, but to sum up, being induced is not necessarily a bad experience, although I managed to avoid drip (but pessaries can also do that job & then have waters broken) & being older is just a one small factor & is not always relevant if you are fit & healthily.
I would say, don't be scared, easier said then done, I know, as that can make things worse, be confident in your body & how you labour, do your research, ask to be supported with what you want from consultant, get support from doula, family member or friend as well as your partner, I was lucky to have a consultant I could trust which really helped me, I hope my post goes a little way to reassure you, good luck, I know it's scary but you will have that lovely baby in your arms in no time!