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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

dateing when pregnant

7 replies

singlemum2be · 01/10/2013 16:57

im 15 weeks pregnant with my first baby, before i got pregnant my partner and I had been fighting and i started to get in contact with a old partner. I split with the babys dad when i was 6 weeks and my ex has been very supportive. I was just wondering if anyone has started a relationship when pregnant as this is what we both want. Babys dad will be in contact with baby but not me.

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Tea1Sugar · 01/10/2013 18:20

I think it's a very personal decision, no experience I'm afraid. But if you only split at 6weeks and are now 15weeks you haven't had long to adjust to a new situation. Could you be jumping to a new relationship quickly for support with the pregnancy?

Sarahmains40 · 01/10/2013 19:17

You should watch the jenifer Lopez film birth plan (chick flick) she is a single parent and falls in love with a guy when she's pregnant. Sorry totally irrelevant but a nice film.

It's totally your choice but if you weren't pregnant would you go out with some one so soon after breaking up with some one.

No one can make that decision other than your self. I hope your work out and are happy and if you do stay with your ex it's nice that he is going to support you. I hope the baby's dad will too.

Congratualtionso n your pregnancy wish you all the luck in the world

morgs22 · 01/10/2013 19:44

If that's what you want then go for it, just remember your ex became your ex for a reason and if you guys can get past whatever the reason and give it another go then why not.
Congratulations on your baby and I hope everything works out for you Thanks

katebakes · 01/10/2013 19:53

Congratulations!

I personally wouldn't even consider this but everyone is different. It's so true that your ex becomes your ex for a reason. Plus pregnancy makes you hormonal etc. I think jumping into something is haphazard. That's just my opinion though. I hope you're happy :)

MortifiedAdams · 01/10/2013 19:55

If it were me, id keep.it very very casual until at least a year after the baby is born.

okiecowgirl2013 · 02/10/2013 04:17

I get where your coming from. I'm 7 weeks now. I found out last week, approx. Two weeks after the babies father and I broke up. He doesn't seem to have any interest in baby.. however my ex fiance,(we broke up mutually and stayed close friends) has really stepped up and had my back here. He calls me everyday to check on me. Not that I'm looking to jump into dating anyone.. he's just my best friend, but there is a guy I was talking to before I found out. I told him about the baby and he's not been anything but supportive and sweet. All I'm saying is right now, I'm focused on myself and my baby. But I'm only 22, and my life isn't over. so I'm not ruling anything out just yet

okiecowgirl2013 · 02/10/2013 04:19

I'm sorry. I make no sense. Lol I have terrible insomnia and I don't sleep much so I tend to babble.

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