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stunned, don't know where to go from here

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lowra · 30/08/2013 19:26

I went for an 8 week reassurance scan today following an early mc last cycle. They could not find a yoke in the sac and said the pregnancy had never really developed. I can't believe it. I've been so sick and tired all week and have been feeling really pregnant.
I had my bloods done as they need to rule out an ectopic and I need to get them done again on Monday to check if th HCG is reducing. I think I'll then have to be scanned again next week in the epu but they are hoping nature will take it's course.
I feel devastated. I'm 37, been trying a year for number 2, nothing and then 2 miscarriages. Don't know if I can do this again Sad

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SaucyJack · 30/08/2013 19:36

So sorry Thanks

PumpkinPie2013 · 30/08/2013 19:54

So sorry for you - I have no advice but wanted to offer support Flowers x

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lowra · 30/08/2013 20:02

Thanks both. I think I'm in shock. I really thought everything was going to be OK and that we'd see a little bean.

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Stom91 · 30/08/2013 20:06

so sorry to here that, we are all here for you. Flowers

spanky2 · 30/08/2013 20:11

That is really crap .Sad There is nothing I can say. My grandma had my mum at 45 so please don't write yourself off yet .

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lowra · 30/08/2013 20:58

Thanks for the support. Have taken myself off to bed. Not really sure what to do.

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fluffyraggies · 30/08/2013 21:06
Thanks

So sorry to hear this lowra.

Look after yourself right now - you'll be in shock :(
Have you support around you?

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lowra · 30/08/2013 21:07

Yes dp is here. He's great but pretty shook up himself.

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Writerwannabe83 · 30/08/2013 21:07

Hello lowra - I'm very sorry to read your news x x

jinglebellmel · 30/08/2013 21:09

So sorry, wish there was something I could say to help. I'm sure there will be some more people come along soon who have been through similar and can offer some hope xx

princesscupcakemummyb · 30/08/2013 21:24

so sorry Flowers

tweetypie2 · 30/08/2013 22:57

So sorry. I had 2 mc before conceiving dc2,just before I turned 38. It will happen for you. I had given up hope of conceiving again and then it happened when we stopped trying. I was so nervous at early scan, convinced this would be another mc and had a very nervous pg but all went well.

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lowra · 31/08/2013 08:41

It feels more real this morning. Although I'm in limbo now waiting for the bleed. I think we will probably keep trying but I can't think about that at the moment. Thanks all x

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suntodayplease · 31/08/2013 09:30

After 2 mc last year I felt like I'd had enough and I wanted to get my body back to normal. After several months off ttc we took the plunge and I'm now 34 weeks. Take whatever time you need physically and emotionally its hard. Also the support around you it's invaluable.

ovenbun · 31/08/2013 09:56

so sorry to hear this, how difficult for you both xxx

Sammi1986 · 31/08/2013 12:21

What a terrible time for you both, wishing you love and support xx

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