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NEW BFP - already worried.

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Writerwannabe83 · 21/07/2013 07:07

Morning everyone,

I got 6 BFPs yesterday (long story as to why there were 6) and this morning when I woke up I took another one because my husband wanted to be there when I did one as I did them on my own yesterday.

Anyway, I was all excited and expected to see a nice positive line, but I only got a faint one and it was fainter than the one I got yesterday. I tried again with a different branded test and again I got a fainter line than when I had when I used the same brand yesterday.

I thought the lines were supposed to get stronger???

If it makes any difference, when I used my first stream urine yesterday to take 2 tests they both came back negative, it was only as the day progressed that I got the BFPs.

I'm really worried now that I got excited too early Sad

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fluffyraggies · 21/07/2013 13:17

OP, this is from the NHS website:

You can book an appointment with your GP or directly with your midwife as soon as you know that you're pregnant. Your GP surgery or a Children?s Centre can put you in touch with your nearest midwifery service.

It's best to see them as early as possible. If you have special health needs, your midwife, GP or obstetrician may take shared responsibility for your maternity care. This means they will all see you during your pregnancy.

Your first visit with your midwife or GP is the appointment when you tell them that you're pregnant. At this first visit, you will be given information about:

folic acid and vitamin D supplements
nutrition, diet and food hygiene
lifestyle factors that may affect your health or the health of your baby, such as smoking, recreational drug use and drinking alcohol 
antenatal screening tests 

They will give you information on keeping healthy, and ask whether you have had any previous health or pregnancy issues, such as complications in pregnancy. It's important to tell your midwife or doctor if:

You've had any complications or infections in a previous pregnancy or delivery, such as pre-eclampsia or premature birth. 
You're being treated for a chronic disease, such as diabetes or high blood pressure. 
You or anyone in your family have previously had a baby with an abnormality, such as spina bifida. 
There's a family history of an inherited disease, such as sickle cell or cystic fibrosis.

Your next appointment should happen when you are 8-12 weeks pregnant. This is called the booking appointment. This will last for up to two hours, and could take place either at a hospital or in the community, for example in a clinic at a health centre, in a GP surgery or at home. You'll see a midwife and sometimes a doctor. You may also be offered an ultrasound scan.

xxxx

Champagnebubble · 21/07/2013 13:21

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Writerwannabe83 · 21/07/2013 13:22

Thanks - that's really useful. I have got a Specialist Epilepsy Nurse (who I had a pre-conception appointment with to discuss the risks) and she said to let her know when I get pregnant - she didn't specify at what point she wanted to know though.

I will definitely see my GP this coming week - do they take bloods to confirm pregnancy? I think once I have seen the GP and had the 'yes you are definitely pregnant and your levels are nice and high' conversation, I will let the other professionals know too.

It is all so exciting!!!

I take 5mg of Folic Acid every day and have done for the last 3 months.
Are we supposed to take Vitamin D too? It has never been mentioned.

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Writerwannabe83 · 21/07/2013 13:23

champagne - I'd pay that much just to have the reassurance!!! Grin

Thanks for all your advice x x

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fluffyraggies · 21/07/2013 13:28

My own experience of first contact with doc's is that they just believe you when you say you are pregnant, and get on with the masses and masses of paperwork and note taking for you! I've always found it odd, tbh.

In two of my pregnancies i've had a scan at 10 weeks - that would be the only time 'proof' has been seen, lol.

Perhaps if you mention your worries when you ring next week they'll do bloods for you. But more than likely they'll just ask if you've done a digi test. I believe they are as reliable as the ones used by docs if not done by blood.

fluffyraggies · 21/07/2013 13:29

I mean 'proof' before the usual 12 week scan that everyone has, IYSWIM?

Writerwannabe83 · 21/07/2013 14:02

Digital Test = Pregnant 2-3 weeks Grin Grin

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jinglebellmel · 21/07/2013 18:32

Congratulations! I called my GP's and told the receptionist who had me fill in some forms that referred me to a midwife, but it depends where you are I think as I know some people saw GP to confirm pregnancy. If you call the GP surgery they should be able to tell you their procedure.

fluffyraggies · 21/07/2013 19:05

There you go OP! Grin Congratulations!

Writerwannabe83 · 21/07/2013 20:14

Thank you!!!

And a big thank you to everyone for all your reassurances and support Thanks x

I will ring my GP surgery tomorrow Smile

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willitbe · 21/07/2013 22:28

Grin Congratulations, and it is great to hear you got the reassurance you needed. Doctors appointments to tell the you are pregnant are normally an anti climax just to warn you. Enjoy these every day of being pregnant!

Doctorbrownbear · 22/07/2013 10:48

I used the Asda own one and did about 4 tests, all were really really faint on the 1st day after missed period. I am 17 weeks now. Congratulations. I would phone your GP and ask if they want to see you if not they should give you the number of the midwife to self refer.

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