am i really rude?

[khotney]

People say my posts are rude and I take it I'm stressing my point esp when it comes to men. Could pregnancy make me sound rude when I feel I sound perfect? Could I be rude because I was left by ma BD and I want all women to hate men like me? I feel men are selfish and cruel and they change . They always start off good but they change. Its reality right men do change, am I rude by stressing ma point and pregnancy is blinding me?

2ndly I was given vitamins to take at e clinic and ihave stoped taking them because I get headaches and vomit after them so is it risky to stop taking them? Or I should jus continue for the sake of the baby ???

Thankyou for reading good people

I think you shouldn't try and force people to have the same opinions as you do on anything, everyone's experiences are different.
With the vitamins just go back to the clinic or your gp and explain that they are making you ill, they can perhaps prescribe something different or advise you what to do

khotney I have read a few of your posts and you do on occasion come across as strong minded and unwilling to consider that others opinions are also valid but I wouldn't say you were rude per say. As tinky says you shouldn't try and force people into having the same opinion as you as that can be seen as bullying and in turn could come across as rude to some.

I don't know your issues but from what you have included in your post above you clearly have some deep rooted issues relating to men and rejection. IME not all men change for the worst and not all men are b*stards. Yes there are some who are and I have unfortunately been in relationships with a few, but I have also met (and now having a baby with) an awesome man and I know plenty of men who are utterly amazing people, they are kind, caring, considerate, loving, fantastic partners and excellent fathers - and no they are not gay

My own DF was a complete twunt when I was younger, he is an alcoholic and was very verbally abusive towards me when I was younger. These days he is a completely different person and one of my best friends. He stopped drinking a long time ago and has learnt what triggers his relapses and has learnt to deal with those situations in different ways and I am VERY proud of him for changing his ways and repairing our relationship - and I promise I did not make it easy for him.

I think you should consider some sort of counselling for your issues with men and accept that not all men are like the ones who have hurt you

and I second tinky re the tablets, go back and tell the GP about the side effects and see if they can try something different xxx

Like TinyPeet said, not everybody has had your experiences with men, so you shouldn't expect everyone to agree with you. I think maybe you're just trying to use pregnancy as an excuse.

Vitamins: I stopped taking mine for the same reasons. I just get all my vitamins from food.

Re vitamins - take them later in the day. I tried that & it really helped me get rid of that sicky feeling