Hi Alexandra, hope you're ok. Just thought I'd update you as to what's going on with me. So my last scan was last Weds, when it measured 25.7 mm ( two weeks earlier it had been 28mm). The sonographers took ages measuring and printed out 6 different sonograms for the consultant to look at. The lowest measurement recorded on those scans was 23mm, but the consultant explained that that particular scan wasnt accurate as the whole cervix couldn't be seen. She still seemed unconcerned about 25.7 and said it wasn't enough of a reduction to consider a stitch. She also said there was no sign of funnelling either at this stage.
The following day I felt very anxious, weird crampy pains (one of the sonographers was really rough!), and I was still concerned about the 23mm measurement, so I emailed my consultant with my concerns. She actually called me back within hours and arranged for me to see another consultant for second opinion last Friday ( I've been so impressed so far with the consultant care I've had on the NHS - almost like private care).
Anyway, new consultant was also lovely. She reassured me that 25.7 is still a decent measurement for someone who's had a cervical procedure. With regards to a stitch, she said at the moment, my cervix did not look like it needed one and that she wouldn't normally put one in until it measured under 2cm - usually 1.5. I asked if 24 weeks was the deadline for placing stitch, but she said she's done them as late as 28 weeks. She also explained that at nearly 24 weeks, I am almost approaching a stage where the baby has a chance of survival if it was born. If he can just stay put for the next month I think I'll feel a lot more relaxed. It's so stressful though - every little twinge or cramp panics me and I've been having some crampy pains that are worrying me. I may pop down to the EPC later to be checked out! I just want my body to hold him in until 30 weeks at least - keeping fingers tightly crossed!
Oh, and consultant also said that bed rest is only really helpful once you've had the stitch. She said I was fine to do moderate exercise, have sex, baths/swimming etc (although of course I'm abstaining from all of those to be on the safe side). Still pottering about in garden and doing moderate housework, but making sure I sit/lie down for substantial periods each day (lucky enough not to be working at the mo). I spent months in bed at the beginning due to hideously awful nausea/morning sickness, so I really don't want to go back to bedrest again! My pregnancy has been so awful so far that I doubt very much I will do it again, which is why I desperately want to protect this one.
When is your next scan? Mine is on Thursday and I've requested that the consultant performs it, to which she agreed which is fab. I'm at Frimley Park Hospital in Surrey - are you in London? I am really hoping that we both have a positive result this time and that we can both start enjoying our pregnancies, rather than obsessively worrying! Xxxxxx