BD worried about sex during pregnancy....

9 replies

YummyMummy17 · 09/04/2013 16:30

Hello ladies!

Been four years since I was last active! Happy to be back. My partner and I are 10weeks pregnant and he has started to worry about having sex with me during pregnancy! :( he is worried it may harm baby....

I have one child from a previous relationship so I know this is not the case, but have any you other ladies been in this situation? Any words of advice how to put his mind at ease?

Thanks!!

OP posts:

MinnieBar · 09/04/2013 16:31

Does 'BD' stand for 'baby daddy'?!!!

Original poster

YummyMummy17 · 09/04/2013 17:38

Yes ?

OP posts:

LizzyMcGuire · 09/04/2013 17:39

BabyDaddy?

Fucking fuckeroo fuckery.

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 09/04/2013 17:58

Right, focusing on the issue at hand: my DH had this concern. He read a book called 'pregnancy for blokes'. That combined with a lack of sex for a while due to my excessive puking meant when I was up for it, he put his fears aside! :) I'd just advise him that its fine but to make sure he's gentle.

MinnieBar · 09/04/2013 18:08

Stop calling him baby daddy, point out only one of you is pregnant, and tell him that your lil' bubs won't be adversely affected AT ALL by making sweet sweet lurrve. NHS website maybe?

massagegirl · 09/04/2013 18:37

Call him whatever you want!
Show him bits on line or in pregnsncy book that say its totally fine and safe!

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 09/04/2013 18:52

I think it's a bit harsh to mock the OP simply for referring to him as BD!

There's a link here to the NHS info, should reassure him!

TheAccidentalExhibitionist · 09/04/2013 18:59

BabyDaddy?
As for sex, should be fine unless you've been advised not to by your GP of Midwife.

Heathbaby · 09/04/2013 19:47

OP, I think baby daddy is preferable to dear husband which has always sounded odd overly traditional and serious to me . Hope your BD changes his mind on the sex point soon - sure he will.

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