I'm sorry to hear that your feeling so rough Twiglett. But I seem to be the opposite to you.
Before I had my dd I always had a cold right through the winter, any bugs going around you name it I caught it. I suffered quite bad with hay fever in the summer as well.
I got pregnant with dd and never looked back, I was pregnant during the winter and didn't get one single cold or flu bug. During the summer,dd was born in August, my hayfever was very very mild.
Even after dd was born I didn't get colds as often as I used to and my hayfever was never as bad as pre dd days. It was as if my immune system finally kicked in and protected me.This lasted up until dd was about 4 and a half then it all started to go downhill. I went on holiday and got tonsiitis and allergic conjunctivitis and my hayfever that summer was the worst it had been in years.
Now I'm pregnant again, same stage you're at twiglett, and I've not been ill once this winter and I'm hoping that my immune system will kick in again and do a repeat of last time.