Hi,
I am 32wks pregnant my partner + I have always had a brilliant sex life but just lately we have gone from having a lot of sex to maybe once or twice a week. I've always been a bigger person so never been overly confident and being pregnant + getting bigger hasn't helped that. I've noticed he isn't so keen lately so have mentioned it a few times + he just says he is slowing down !!
I have a high sex drive and he knows when I'm in the mood and lately that's just gone un-noticed. I usually go to be between 10-10.30pm I have a 7yr old so I'm up early getting her ready for school, then go fodd shopping, come home clean up+do the washing etc so by 10ish my bed is calling me.
Last night I went to be about 10.15pm my partner knew I was in the mood but didn't wanna come to bed as it was to early which I thought ok and off to bed I went. I was laid in bed + could hear him putting the laptop on, I knew instantly what he was doing, I came down stairs and made an excuse that my lips were chapped so wanted my lip balm, he was acting all shifty I knew dam well he was watching porn on the laptop, I got my lip balm + went back to bed feeling so pissed off + hurt that he knew I wanted him to come to bed + he was sat downstairs on the laptop instead !! I lead there for a while thinking what to do/say + I decided to take him a quilt down + tell him to sleep downstairs as I knew what he was down here doing, he didn't denie it I walked back upstairs + got in bed, 5 mins later he is in the bedroom asking me what my problem is... I told him he knew I was in the mood yet he'd rather sit infront of porn than come to bed, I also said I'd noticed how distant he had been with sex lately. He then decides to tell me its becuz my bump gets in the way yet 9 times out of 10 we do it doggy style so it doesn't get in the way. He told me he loves me to bits + that I'm being silly but I really felt upset that my needs no longer matter. We was having a cuddle earlier and he made it clear he was in the mood, I told him to jog on when I want it he sits down stairs watches porn + has a wank yet when he wants it I'm suppose to jump at the chance. I have been a right stressy bitch these last few months I know that + I know I'm hard work when I am moody but am I wrong for feeling how am I feeling ???