1st pregnancy needing some reassurance!

[Kizzydog92]

Hi there, new on here! This is my first pregnancy which wasn't planned, me and my partner have been together 5 years but we are still fairly young. Needless to say my initial reaction and thoughts were to abort the baby however after thinking hard about it, we have come to the decision that we won't. Now I've come round to the idea and we've both got quite excited by it all!
Problem is, it's my first scan tomorrow and I should be about 12 and a half weeks, I'm terrified that now I've come to terms with it, something will be wrong :(
I've felt pg, but haven't had morning sickness just the odd bit of queasiness. I've hardly had any symptoms which worries me, I thought everyone was supposed to feel shocking! Although I don't WANT to feel rubbish, I think it would keep my kind at rest :( anybody feel/felt the same?

:)

It's natural to worry, pretty much everyone on here will tell you they worried before their first scan. Having no symptoms is great and again not something to really worry about. Try keep an open mind - what will be will be and chances are very high that you'll see your little one for the first time tomorrow, will be a very special moment for you!

Totally normal how you're feeling. I think most people worry at their scans.

Also, I never had any sickness.

I had no symptoms at all until 32 weeks when my bp started to dance about. then from about 36 weeks I had a touch of heartburn. healthy ds is now 12 weeks old

enjoy being healthy - symptoms can and do hit at any point.

wrt scan - you'll fret at every appt you have! I convinced myself I'd be fine after each appt vut it didn't stop me coming out of each one and counting down the days til my next one.
then I convinced myself I'd be fine once he arrived - nope. I still fi d something to worry about each day