I missed DD1's parents update (she's at school nursery) on Monday night. Admittedly I was in hospital having a scan because of a bleed last week (scan was to make sure baby DC2 was okay - she is) I'm 31 weeks pregnant and wondering if I can't do such a simple thing as remember her parents eve - what hope do I have with DC2. After DD1 turned 18 months I went back to work in the city for over a year - and am now self employed and work from home. Have just cried in front of DD1 and my mum - feeling totally useless. Doesn't help that MIL is staying to help look after me, bug doesn't understand that DD1 comes first (she was in bathroom this morning for 20 minutes) when I needed to get DD ready for nursery; and she never wakes up before 9am at her home! My hormones must be running rampant this week.