Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Gift for midwives?

15 replies

GreatSoprendo · 03/03/2013 10:47

35+3 and packing my various hospital bags. Should I pack something to give the midwives as a thank you? Was thinking about having a couple of nice tins of posh biscuits in the car to give them when I leave hospital, and maybe a nice thank you card. What are you planning to leave for the midwives, if anything?

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
MrsHBaby3 · 03/03/2013 11:15

Ive got tea and biscuits for when they arrive for the (home)birth and will probably send flowers and cakes afterwards or very least a big box of choccies. Depends how helpful they are!!

racheld33 · 03/03/2013 12:53

We nipped in week after when we were registering the birth and dropped off chocolates, biscuits and card. They seemed really surprised Thanks

Guntie · 03/03/2013 14:14

I am planning a HB so will have stuff on hand for them to snack on etc. In the event that we end up at hospital I don't plan on taking anything in. You don't know how the birth will go, or how you will feel towards the people giving you care. If I want to, I will drop something off to them post birth. Good Luck, you're almost there :-)

gardenpixie32 · 03/03/2013 14:18

I sent a card to one of the midwives who was particularly lovely and helpful. I was in for 5 days and she was my assigned midwife for 4 of those days.

Radiator1234 · 03/03/2013 15:18

We went and took some flowers a week later

TwitchyTail · 03/03/2013 15:40

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ZuleikaD · 03/03/2013 17:06

I didn't do anything last time round, because I was very unimpressed with my MW (who basically spent my whole labour chatting to a trainee paramedic while I shivered semi-naked on the floor), but after my first DC I sent the MW the biggest Thorntons gift box I could find because IMO she went way beyond the call of duty. She'd stayed with me well past the end of her shift and had been absolutely brilliant. I didn't take anything into hospital though - tbh there was enough to think about already!

CitizenOscar · 04/03/2013 22:43

I sent a card & wanted to do more because the MWs were mostly great and as I was there for nearly a week I met all of them! But it wasn't practical once I got home so would have been nice to have given them something before I left. Nice idea to have something in the car.

Phoenixflame · 05/03/2013 09:49

After having my DS I gave a big box of celebrations chocolates and A card. But I had been there for 12 days. 5 days before a EMCS and a week after DS arrived due to him being in NICU. Had some wonderful midwives and doctors so I wanted to give them something. I got my DH to bring it with him when we knew we were being discharged. Taking something with you is good idea. My midwives were happy to get the chocolates.

Twattybollocks · 05/03/2013 12:10

Biscuits are always welcome, as are cakes. I bought mine a big bunch of flowers, but she is my sister and I did call her some horrible names when she kept turning the drip up!

GreatSoprendo · 06/03/2013 16:07

Thanks for the replies. Think I will make sure we have some biscuits or chocs ready in the car as really can't see me making it back up to the hospital and paying their extortionate parking fees to deliver something in the weeks after LO has arrived Grin

OP posts:
clarasebal · 18/09/2013 19:32

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by Mumsnet for breaking our Talk Guidelines. Replies may also be deleted.

hellsbells76 · 18/09/2013 19:35

Spam reported.

hellsbells76 · 18/09/2013 19:37
princesscupcakemummyb · 18/09/2013 21:56

what a lovely idea i never did this with my other births the babys where born in hospital i am planning a home birth and have a lovely midwife so il be thinking now what to get to say thank you :)

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread