hi all im currently approaching 12 weeks. Background is I was married had to dc with my ex h there now 6.5 and 4.5 and the children spend equal time between me and my ex. A few months after i met a really my current partner and we have been together almost 2 years though we dont live together right now in the past few months he bes here most weekends and my children are happy in his company.
I had a mc in aug with a unexpected and this motivated us to try again and i got bfp in november. My mum hasnt been overly happy with everything and she was pleased when i had the mc as i live in rural ireland and its a big deal here to ever move on from your marriage regardless of circumstances never mind daring to have aother child with someone else! So i told her friday when we were sure that touch wood everything is ok and she has been so negative that its making me question everything. She said my kids will think im replacing them its to soon they will think i dont love them they wont understand why they need to go with there dad and the baby stays behind she isnt sleeping with worry and now i feel completely selfish. I love my children more than life they come first in everything i do now im half thinking should i follow my mums wish and have a termination and think about a baby in a couple of years. For the record im unbelievably 33 but in this situation feel like a child!