Here's the background. I'm well over 40 and currently 12.3 weeks with DC2. Had 2 MC after DD who is 5.
Was surprised to get a BFP at 6 weeks. Went to GP at 8 weeks and explained that given my past history of seeing an early scan and then it all going wrong I wasn't desperate for an early scan. In the event I was offered and accepted an early scan at 11 weeks at the EPU. All was well.
Hospital does nuchal fold scan along with dating scan, however I'd been given a date for this after 14 weeks. I called and said I unfortunately couldn't do that date due to a work thing I can't wriggle out of. I've now been given a scan date when I will be almost 16 weeks. I tried to explain my situation and the staff were very nice but no one (MW, Fetal Med dept) seemed able to help get me a scan before I am 14 weeks.
I've got an appt with my consultant and thinking of stamping my feet when I see her at 13.1 weeks, next week.
Or, do we just go and get a private scan? We can just about afford it.
Anyone else been in this situation, what did you do?