All he "said" he wanted was a son, now I'm 33weeks pregnant with a boy (yay) but dp hasn't come near me the wholeeee pregnancy, won't feel baby kicking, won't come in the bathroom if I'm in there (sounds stupid but he always use to sit and chat to me if I was in the bath, shower), barely mentions anything to do with the pregnancy or this son he so called always wanted and looks at me oddly :(
Finally cracked last night and asked him what the hell was going on and I got back:
- He hates that theres something living inside me and how do I do it!
- I look weird ( meaning the bump... but I actually have a really small bump and people have only started noticing in the last 2 weeks)
- He doesn't want to feel baby move as he doesn't like it.
I joked around saying maybe he should of left me for the 9 months then come back thinking he'd disagree... but he agreed :-/ .... :( he said most men would feel like this and anyone that enjoyed feeling the baby kicking was lying :(
I'm stupidly insecure anyway and now I feel a million times worse, I almost feel ashamed to be pregnant now and that I should hide my bump the best I can, I would do that but it's only going to get bigger!! Feel like total crap :( feel embarrassed to give birth with him there now too.
Is this normal for men? :-/