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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

18+6, am I being a bit over analytical?

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stowsettler · 18/09/2012 09:19

I've only really been feeling the baby move for about 10 days, but today I haven't felt it move at all, I think. I'm still in the "was it or wasn't it?" phase with some movements / feelings, but they have been getting progressively stronger over the past week. But today, I don't think I've felt anything. I'm sat here with a big bottle of cold water, will guzzle that down now, and I know the advice on here is usually if movement slows, to call midwife - but isn't it a bit too early to be setting so much store by what is, in reality, just a little bit of movement (or lack of it)?

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sammyleh · 18/09/2012 09:27

I was touching 20 weeks before I felt proper regular movements and like you I was really unsure as to what was a kick and what was just a huge bit of wind bubbling. It doesn't harm to call the midwife if you're worrying but personally, I had days before I was really certain where I didn't feel much at all xx

Plunkett · 18/09/2012 09:27

Hi stow
As time goes on you'll get used to your baby's individual movements. My Lo tends to have 4 active days then 2 quite days (I'm 32 weeks). At 18 weeks there's still a fair bit of room for him/her to hide so sure it's nothing to worry about. However always better to get checked/have a chat to midwife if it's playing on your mind - no one wants a worried mum :)

InTheNightGarden · 18/09/2012 09:27

sorry to hear your in abit of bother,

I'm 18+3 with my 2dc, I only really feel baby move when I'm lead down so maybe try lying on your back for a little while, may help, if your still worried I would ring mw, it's better to be safe than sorry and the mw will see it the same :) it's not good for you to be stressing :)

We must be due at similar times!!!

cakeandcava · 18/09/2012 09:39

Try not to worry (I know that's not possible...) -at this stage, the baby is still so small that if he/she moves somewhere else (and they have plenty of space) you might not feel him/her at all. You can go for days without feeling movement, and it's totally fine.

I only started getting regular movements around week 26-27. Before that, there were days with little. They recommend that you start paying attention to movements/counting kicks after week 28. Before that, movements are too erratic, and counting can cause undue stress and worry.

InchyInchy · 18/09/2012 09:45

I'm 19 weeks and I have started to feel the baby but not all the time and not everyday.

The baby could always just be kicking at it's placenta, when I went for a gender scan last week the baby was tucked up right beside it.

Please let us know what the MW says if you contact them because I would be interested in the answer myself.

I hope the little one starts wriggling around any minute!

stowsettler · 18/09/2012 09:56

Thanks everyone, all your responses were very reassuring! The little bugger just woke up, so am starting to relax now. I'm not usually such a worrier and have been pretty blase about this pregnancy. I guess it gets to us all in the end!!!

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