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Last week or two of pregnancy

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squidkid · 16/09/2012 13:44

Just a place for advice/suggestions or a place to chat for those of us in the last couple weeks of pregnancy. I am on a brilliant antenatal thread but my due date is the first there and I don't want to bore them all with nonsense about braxton hicks and how to fill my days when lots of them are still at work... and I think they would prefer their babies to stay inside for now! I'm not quite at the "get it out of me" stage yet... but I'm definitely at the "if you came now you'd be very welcome" stage.... :)

I am 38+5 today and this is first baby. I know most first babies come late, so I've been trying to tell myself I'll be late throughout the pregnancy, but now I'm term it's hard not to be excited. In the last three or four days I've had long periods of continuous mild period-like pain, and some painful tightenings (sometimes very close together, but then they stop). Are these imminent signs, do these mean nothing... I don't really know. I haven't had a show.

Baby has been engaged since 34 weeks (uncomfortable!) I'm pretty sure his/her back is on the left side at the front (all the kicks are upper right hand side) which I think is ideal. I'm a little obsessive about keeping baby in a good position - I spend time on all fours, make sure I get plenty of walking/standing, sit on a gym ball when I'm on the computer, sleep on my side, I don't lie back on the sofa. I'm probably overthinking this.

I am doing pretty ok for late pregnancy - still walking at least a few miles a day, or swimming, or walking into town every day. I actually did a charity night hike last night! (Boyfriend carried maternity notes in his backpack through the woods - it was a bit stupid really!) I am slow, but I thought I'd be a lot heavier and more immobile by this stage to be honest. I stopped work a while back - a very busy, stressful, physically and emotionally demanding job - so I've had a lot of time to relax, nest, exercise, see almost all my friends, sort my flat out. Everything is neat and sorted and stocked and ready.

I'm grateful that I've had a troublefree pregnancy and hoping the birth will go fine too. Feeling positive and relaxed about it, just impatient!

How are other people doing? Staying busy, getting anxious, waiting, over-analysing every tiny sign!? Any suggestions for good things to do in the last week or two? Please no one tell me to 'get lots of sleep' as this is the one thing I am completely incapable of at the moment - up every 30-60 mins through the night...

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JessTT · 25/09/2012 13:38

So.....Nell Rosa (we're not 100% sure of the name yet!) arrived at 9am in the pool at home......yay!!! She's amazing (currently snoozing on my boob making cute snorty noises) and am sooooo happy I got my pool homebirth!!!

Now good luck to all you lovely ladies x x x

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CluelessMama · 25/09/2012 13:44

Hello all, just found this thread and though I haven't caught up with all previous messages yet, I feel very at home here! Identify with so much of what has been said!
I am 40 + 3, have had a good pregnancy. Bags have been packed for weeks and until a few days ago I was excited and smiley and really felt ready for the challenges to come. Now I have a weird feeling of anticlimax, a bit bored as if I've lost interest in the whole thing!! I'm sure I'll get excited again pretty quickly when things start happening, but I'm so much more tired and to try to avoid myself going mad I've been avoiding baby-related reading/preparing for a few days...all in all I feel less ready/able to cope than I was before!!
Midwife appointment and sweep on Friday, will be happy to have sweep if it works but suspect it only has an effect if my body and baby are already pretty close to going anyway...will go with it and see what happens I guess.
Good to see a couple of names I recognise from Sept thread, was wondering about you funchum and ballroomblitz, hope things happen for you both soon but nice to feel there's others in the same boat as me!

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CluelessMama · 25/09/2012 13:46

On a more positive note...congrats JessTT!!

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whenhenshaveteeth · 25/09/2012 14:02

Congratulations Jess Thanks

That seemed pretty quick, which is encouraging for the rest of us!

Paperclip, any progress?

Nothing for me, literally nothing. I know it's not even my due date yet (friday) but I was so convinced he was going to be early, I'm a bit Confused now.

I've got a few things to finish so in a way I'm not too bothered but still the wait is a bit weird, I like having a plan!

Re: BMI, I wouldn't worry. You know the BMI doesn't work for people who are muscle heavy and you can easily back that argument so that your MW leaves you in peace about it.

I love Shellac too, it's just a bit of a bum to get off so I'm not doing it this time. I'm too tight to pay to have it remove and given the weather I reckon I won't be exposing my toe nails so regularly so I'm just going to give them a fresh over for the birth and then I'll have other things to worry about I reckon...

Right, need to go for a nap, I'm shattered!

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funchum8am · 25/09/2012 15:49

Hi cluelessmama, you sound like you're having very similar feelings to me! I have a sweep on Friday as well bit as you say, it will only work if things are ready anyway so not getting my hopes up!

Congratulations jess, I am glad to hear you got the home birth you wanted!

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Orenishii · 25/09/2012 16:27

OMG JessTT HUGE congratulations!!!

And yay you're my hero - at home!

When and IF you feel to ready to, do tell us all about it - I am beginning to get the slight fear, but then you hear of someone just doing it and that person is amazing - bloody well done!

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Mikyahrose · 25/09/2012 16:48

Congrats jess. :)

Still nothing for me. Been for a brisk walk and swimming today.

Seeing the midwife tomorrow, hopefully having a sweep.

40 + 7 now.

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paperclips · 25/09/2012 17:04

Many Congratulations JessTT lovely news!

Still nothing here. All my aches and tightenings during the night calmed down again by morning, but every day they are getting stronger. I actually want them to get stronger more painful! It's weird to be hoping for pain!

This afternoon I've seen the midwife and had a sweep, well more of a poke around than a sweep she could only get a fingertip in, but cervix is 80% effaced so things are moving in the right direction. All those aches and things are having some effect. Also baby's head is now 4/5 engaged. The "tightenings" are continuing, stronger but not really regular.

Going to try another sweep on Thursday. Also have a booked for induction next week when I'll be 40+13, just in case I'm still waiting. I hope I don't need it.

Found out yesterday I have group B strep so will need antibiotics and have to stay in hospital for 24-48 hours after delivery. Bit upset about it, I've never been in hospital before and had hoped for everything really simple and to get home asap, but baby being safe is the most important thing. Just really want to meet our little snuggly baby now.

I would like a long walk but its so rainy here I got soaked just walking the 5 minutes to the clinic. It's awful outside.

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ballroomblitz · 25/09/2012 20:35

Congratulations Jess

Good to see some of us from the Sept thread are still im patiently hanging around for arrivals.

How did you find out you had strep B paperclips ? I know what you mean about it being weird wishing for pain :)

Now five days over :( Had a bit of walk despite getting told off by my parents for walking everywhere. Amazing that I'm in my 30s and still getting told off by them. Think they're a bit worried of my waters suddenly going when I'm out and about but just reassured them I always carry my phone with me.

I'm not noticing my tightenings getting stronger at all. Think I may just settle my head for section next week.

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PollyIndia · 25/09/2012 21:00

Ballroomblitz, my parents are always telling me to slow down. Walking is meant to be good for bringing on labour though. I reckon I have done about 4 miles today!

But more importantly congrats Jesstt. So pleased for you and second orenishii in saying I would love to hear a longer birth story. So hoping I get my homebirth!

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paperclips · 25/09/2012 22:25

Ballroomblitz - You asked how I found out about the group b strep. On saturday I went up to the hospital as I was worried about reduced movements. Baby was fine, but when they dipped my urine there was signs of infection so they sent it off to microbiology, and then I got a call from my GP about it on Monday. At least I found out though or I would never have known.

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funchum8am · 26/09/2012 09:42

Hi ladies, sorry to hear about the GBS ballroomblitz but at least you've found out so they can deal with the (very low) risk it presents. I do find it strange they don't test everyone for it routinely at the end of pregnancy here in the UK.

I have been waking up in the night and also when I wake in the mornings with sore hands and stiff fingers; turns out it's likely to be carpal tunnel syndrome. It will go when baby arrives most likely but SURELY it is not fair to get new symptoms AFTER my due date!!!!

Had a couple of more painful contraction type feelings yesterday but nothing since so am not getting overexcited. I am booked for induction next Tuesday when I'll be 40+12 and am trying to think of that as my "due date". I wanted to avoid induction but now I think I'm going to grab it with both hands! Good luck to everyone still waiting....we are dwindling in numbers a bit aren't we??

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Mikyahrose · 26/09/2012 11:46

Morning everyone. 40+8 for me too. Just got back from the midwife. Had a sweep, not too bad actually, was expecting far worse. Did bleed though, which she was a little concerned about, but has sent me away saying just to keep an eye on it and if it dosent stop then i'm to ring her. No new blood in the last half hour, so hopefully its stopped. I hope so, as i'm planning on going swimming in the next hour.
Also booked in for my induction, which is Monday at 8.45. Eeek!!

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TurquoiseGoldandOrangecat · 26/09/2012 11:58

Hi all, I'm 40+3 today, and really want the baby out now but at the same time am freaking out about labour.

Trying everything now, fresh pineapple, spicy food, hot baths, I even let dh 'do the sex' last night BlushGrin. No baby yet Sad

Hospital bag has been packed and repacked. I can't do any more batch cooking as I've run out of room in the freezer. I feel like I can't drive anywhere because maybe I'd go into labour and then dh would have to pick me and a car up from a random place. I'm watching far too much e4 and am spending too much time on mumsnet I woke up the other night drooling over my pillow, having had a dream where I was on a train with Leonard and Sheldon, and we were having an argument about whether I was being unreasonable to not go and get more wine Blush.

I'm sick of being too warm and not being able to walk properly and looking and sounding like a beached whale every time I try to get up. Im paranoid about my waters breaking in the newly decorated living room. I don't want the sweep. I want the damn baby now AngrySad. Sorry for the long rant, but apparently I needed it Wink

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Orenishii · 26/09/2012 12:06

Awww Turquoise rant away! I'm a few weeks behind you and can completely feel your pain!

I think the worst thing is not knowing what each little niggle is. Bump just suddenly started hurting massively - in a need-a-pee kind of way and went rock hard and super sticky outy. It's softened up a bit now but...how do you know?? I had back ache last night - is it labour back ache, or is it regular back ache? was the bump hardening/tightening regular or labour tightening?

Aaargghhh!

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JessTT · 26/09/2012 12:19

Hi ladies,
Ok, now I've had a bit of sleep.....here's my birth story:

Didn't think labour was at all imminent as had had less period pains etc than the previous week however got up to go to the toilet around 10pm Monday eve and literally felt a pop and waters went. Tried to go back to sleep but was too excited so rang my sis (who is a midwife but was gonna be there as my birthing partner, along with my partner) who lives about 45 mins away. Started getting contractions around 11ish...pretty regular but manageable one every 10mins. Gave up on trying to sleep about mid-night when my sis arrived....(told my other half he night as well get the sleep in) and we watched a film and then tried to snooze on sofa downstairs in between contractions. Bout 3/4am they were coming every 5 mins and I needed to get up, walk and put the Tens on as they were getting more painful.

Woke up my partner about 6am so he could start to sort pool out and also get daughters stuff together so that when she woke up at 6.45 she was ready to go accross the rd to our friends house. Rang midwives around 7ish to say was about to get into pool and also had got to the point of needing some gas and air. They turned up soon after just as contractions were really ramping up and asked if I wanted them to check how dilated I was....declined and carried on using g&a in pool...soon needed to start pushing and think it was about half an hour-ish of pushing before she was born!!! Stayed in water with her on me for 20 mins to wait for placenta to be delivered....ended up getting out and it being delivered after bout half an hour.

So was a very straight forward birth.....waaaaay easier and quicker than first time round. Not trying to make out it wasn't hard work at times but I never felt like I couldn't cope....guess I had faith that my body could just do it! Recommend going til you really can't handle the contractions without tens (if you're using one), then same with g&a as I felt just at the point of finding them hard to cope with so although am not sure how effective either are for actual pain relief they definitely were the distraction I needed at the time. Was just soooo lovely being at home, and getting to snuggle up in bed with my family straight after!

I hope you are all ok......you'll soon all be enjoying baby snuggles!
X x x

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paperclips · 26/09/2012 12:24

Hi all.

I'm feeling a bit brighter now because I have decided to try to forget that I'm 41 weeks today, and instead think of Tuesday (induction booked) as my due date. So I should have a baby by this time next week.

If baby decides to come out in the meantime then I will be delighted. I'm going to try not to sit around counting tightenings, and thinking "is this the start of it etc etc", because I've been thinking that for well over a week and nothing ever happens.

Best thing is the rain has stopped here so I can go for a little walk. (Before it starts again). Got another sweep tomorrow, and even though it hurts and is rather unpleasant, I am looking forward to the appointment, as I'm very keen for news on the state of my cervix!

I also think I should stay away from Mumsnet as it just makes me dwell on it, and I'm jealous of people having their babies. But I can't stay away!

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paperclips · 26/09/2012 12:27

JessTT your birth story sounds perfect. Sounds like you coped brilliantly too. Congratulations again.

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PollyIndia · 26/09/2012 14:32

That is a lovely story jess. Many many congratulations.

Paperclips, sounds like you have the right attitude. I hope I can be like that next week and just go out for a walk and not think about it.

Sorry to hear about the group b strep ballroom blitz. I don't think I have even been tested for that.

Firsttimeforeverything, mikyahrose and turquoise, really hope it all starts for you soon. But at least with induction getting close, you know there is an end point. I bet it doesn't make it easier.

Orenishii I totally relate to that post after today! I just walked up to the town centre to pick up post, shoes, birth ball and last bits for my hospital bag, and apart from everyone I came into contact with commenting on my bump and if it was a boy or girl (this doesn't bother me, I quite like it), I was getting really bad period pains and backache and started to be convinced this was it! Got home, had a cuppa and a bacon and avocado sandwich and the pains have gone.

Due tomorrow... I have always thought I would be at least a week late so made plans for tonight, tomorrow and the weekend and was out most of the day yesterday and at a birthday dinner last night, but now thinking that maybe it could happen sooner. Not sure I am quite ready! Either way, am going to try and enjoy my last few pre baby days/weeks!

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funchum8am · 26/09/2012 14:54

firsttime sorry to hear you're having to wait - hopefully the midwife will be wrong and it will all be fine when the time comes.

turquoise I could have written your post - freezer full, trying everything including "doing the sex" Grin when DH can cope with the prospect, bless him and watching too much Big Bang Theory! Though I haven't dreamt about Sheldon and Leonard just yet....

Had a teary meltdown at midday as I tried to ring the community midwife to check if my newly developed carpal tunnel was in fact a sign of a problem eg raised blood pressure. The phone rang for 6 mins on each of the three calls I made then rang off so I rang the antenatal ward instead, thinking they could give me the advice I needed. Woman there was a bit stroppy saying I had to keep trying the community line and I went and started crying which is very unlike me. She then became WONDERFUL and put me through to the delivery ward once I told her I was overdue; the lovely midwife there reassured me, said I could go in for a check and calmed me down to the point that I didn't take her up on it. Cue about ten minutes uncontrollable hormonal sobbing after I finished the call though. I think I have reached my limit with this overdue business but I have a sweep on Friday so hopefully will be fine until then now the sobbing is out of my system!

Going to watch a film and eat a doughnut...should go for a walk instead really shoudn't I??? Will bounce on my ball to watch to make up for my lack of motivation to go out and walk about!

Huge sympathies to everyone else who is waiting and hoping - here's to lovely babies arriving soon.

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PollyIndia · 26/09/2012 15:30

Poor you Funchum8am. My sister had carpal tunnel and another friend has it and it's so painful. But you can't have long - there is an end point. Maybe do some stretches on the birth ball while you watch the film and eat a doughnut - that is as good as a walk.

Hope it's not too uncomfortable.

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paperclips · 26/09/2012 16:27

It was me with the Group B Strep- Ballroomblitz was asking about it. I am getting used to the idea now. Midwife says they don't routinely test for it is because it often comes and goes so they would have lots of false negatives.

Just one of those things, I have had a very straightforward easy pregnancy so far so lets just hope this is the only complication I get.

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ballroomblitz · 26/09/2012 17:02

Yes I'd just asked paperclips about the GBS as I know they don't rountinely test for it in the UK. One of my neighbours is not long after a baby though and they found out she had it through a urine test also. Only noticed because she was in and out of hospital with UTIs.

Sounds like you had a really positive birth Jess. Well done.

I'm getting pretty much in the same mood as everyone else and starting to consider my section date on Monday as my due date. Kind of disappointed as I'm not looking forward to the recovery from it, especially with a four year old running about and wanted to give vbac a go but will just trust that whatever happens, happens for a reason. Hospital on Friday to get bloods taken, sign consent forms and the like so hopefully they will give me a quick scan to ensure everything is ok in there and placenta is still holding up.

funchum I've been walking miles a day and it doesn't do any good. I'm in the slob around and stuff my face camp now :)

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PollyIndia · 26/09/2012 18:03

Ah, sorry Paperclips. Baby brain strikes again!

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