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Maternity - hospital bag advice

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frogalou · 27/08/2012 20:47

Hi

I am sure that thread has been done a million times, so feel free to send me there if you can find one, I looked and could not find one 'easy access'.

What would you advice to bring in your maternity bag.... looking at this list this list from another website, I will need a removal van.... is it all necessary?:

What should I pack for labour?

Your birth plan and maternity notes.

Dressing gown. This will be useful if you end up pacing hospital corridors in early labour. You'll also need one on the postnatal ward. Hospitals can be very warm, so a lightweight one may be better. A dark colour or a busy pattern will help to hide any stains.

Backless slip-on slippers, that are easy to get on and off.

Socks. Believe it or not, your feet can get cold during labour.

Old nightdress or T-shirt to wear in labour. It will probably get a bit messy, so don't buy anything specially to wear in hospital.

Massage oil or lotion if you would like to be massaged during your labour.

Birth ball. This can help you to labour effectively. Check whether the hospital has the right size for you. If not, take your own. Remember to bring a pump so your birth partner can inflate it for you.

Lip balm. Your lips can dry out quickly on a warm labour ward.

Snacks and drinks for you while you are in labour. Isotonic sports drinks are good, or take some glucose tablets to keep you going.

Things to help you relax or pass the time, such as books, magazines, or a tablet computer.

Hairbands or a clip. If you have long hair, you may want it tied up.

Pillows. The hospital might not have enough to make you really comfortable. A V-shaped pillow can give you extra support when breastfeeding your baby.

TENS pain relief machine, if you are planning to use one.

Music. Take your MP3 player or a CD player and some CDs. Some hospitals provide their own CD players, but check first.
What should my birth partner pack?
Water spray or a hand-held fan, to cool you down while you're in labour.

Comfortable shoes. They may be pacing the corridors!

A change of clothes. Your birth partner might not get the chance to have a shower for quite a while!

Bendy straws, to help you to have a drink during labour.

Swimwear, if they want to join you in a birth pool.

Mobile phone and charger. If their mobile has a stopwatch/timer function, they can use it to help time your contractions. Or if they have a smartphone, there are apps available that can do the job for them.

Digital camera or camera phone to take photos or a short film of the birth and early moments with your baby.

Snacks and drinks. You don't want a dehydrated, hungry birth partner looking after you. If they bring some snacks and drinks with them, they can stay with you, rather than leaving the room to search for food!
What shall I pack for after the birth?
A going-home outfit. You'll need loose comfortable clothes to wear while you're in hospital and for the journey home. It will take a while for your tummy to go down, so you'll probably still need your maternity clothes when you get home.

Handouts about how to get breastfeeding started, which you received at your antenatal classes. If you have a contact card for a breastfeeding counsellor or specialist, take that with you too.

Nursing bras. Bring two or three.

Breast pads.

Maternity pads. Bring a couple of packs.

Nightshirt or T-shirt. Front-opening shirts are useful in the early days of breastfeeding.

Toiletries. Decant these into smaller bottles, or buy travel versions, to save on space in the postnatal ward. You may sweat more after birth, so take a deodorant.

Towels, hairbrush, toothbrush and toothpaste.

Old or cheap knickers, or disposable knickers. Don't bring your best ones as they will get messy. Big cotton knickers can be useful if you end up having a caesarean, as they won't rub your wound. The NCT sells brilliant stretchy knickers that are comfortable to wear over your scar.

Arnica cream. Although there's no conclusive evidence that it works, some women report that arnica cream helps to reduce bruising and helps the healing process. Don't apply the cream to broken skin.

Eye mask and earplugs, to help you sleep on a brightly lit, noisy ward.
What should I pack for my baby?
Two or three sleepsuits and vests.

Baby blanket. Although hospitals are very warm, your baby may need a blanket if it's chilly outside when you leave.

Nappies. Your newborn will go through as many as 12 in a day.

Muslin squares, for mopping up any milk your baby brings up (possetting).

One pair of socks or booties.

Hat.

One outfit for the trip home (all-in-one stretchy outfits are easiest).

Baby car seat. Some hospitals won't let you leave by car without one.

Jacket or snowsuit for winter babies.

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BuntyCollocks · 27/08/2012 20:54

You will! Here's my list, which served me well last time - everything got used, especially the nighties and towels (I threw up copiously in labour - they don't warn you of that!):

Nighties x 3
Slippers
Flip flops
Dressing gown
Coming home clothes
Big black knickers
Black towels x 2
Breast pads
Always ultra night x2
Lansinoh
Nipple formers/latch assist
Glasses
Kindle
Vest top for pool
Moisturiser
Toothbrush
Brush
Shampoo/conditioner
Deodorant
Pillow
Bra
Maternity notes

For baby:

Vests x 3
Sleepsuits x 3
Hat
Comforter
Nappies
Wipes
Muslin
Cardigans x 2
Snowsuit & car seat (to be in car for DH to bring in)
Going home outfit
Swaddle pods
Blanket

Present for DC1 from DC2

blackteaplease · 27/08/2012 21:25

I wouldn't bother with pillows or a birth ball as these are definitely provided at my hospital, (you might want to check yours). I also wouldn't bring swimwear for dh, he can stay out of the pool! Nor would I take the massage oil.

Other than that it all seems to be there. I have just packed my hospital bag and it fills a mid-sized holdall but then I will be having an ELCS and will be in for at least 2 nights.

Don't forget that your DH can bring things in for you from home, ie clean clothes for you and the baby if you haven't packed enough.

BuntyCollocks · 27/08/2012 22:41

See, I disagree on the pillow front. It's nicer to have your own pillow - hospital pillows are shite!

ZuleikaD · 28/08/2012 07:51

Wow, I didn't take nearly that much stuff last time. But then I was going in by myself (DH at home with DD until grandparents arrived) and knew I wouldn't be able to carry much with 5-minute contractions. I took a small rucksack with:

For baby
couple of sleepsuits and going-home outer sleepsuit
couple of nappies

For me
Couple of big t-shirts to labour in
Disposable knickers and maternity pads
Energy tablets for during labour
Snacks to eat after labour
Toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo/shower stuff
Clean pyjamas for recovery (in a dark colour)
Money for the taxi

That was about it. IME all the stuff about 'things to help you relax or pass the time' is completely redundant when you're on hands and knees with an Entonox mouthpiece clenched in your teeth like it's going to save your life. But then my MLU won't admit you until your contractions are 5m apart so there's not much hanging around.

Wiggy29 · 28/08/2012 07:59

Most useful thing I found was a bottle for water with a sports cap so dp could just stick it in my mouth when I was thirsty towards the end, saved faffing about with straws etc.

frogalou · 28/08/2012 09:15

Pfffffff..... it sounds quite scary now...... my boyfriend does not drive so I will try to get everything I need in one go. I guess in my naive first time mum to be mind, I am going to the hospital, giving birth to the baby and going home with her. I have kind of ignored what the 'giving birth' bit entails and how long it may last and what creature comfort I may need, despite watching 'one born every minute' and 'midwife'. Time to wise up for me I think!

By the way... in 'midwife', has anyone noticed that women giving birth seem to be wearing very fetching socks.... , like flight socks... what is that about?

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blackteaplease · 28/08/2012 09:21

Have they had c-sections? I had compression socks for mine, something to do with preventing blood clots while you are immobile until the anaesthetic wears off.

If you have a straightforward vaginal delivery you could be in for one night, or even home the same day in which case you wouldn't need all of the stuff on the list.

ZuleikaD · 28/08/2012 09:23

My feet get cold when I'm labouring so I keep my socks on.

Minty82 · 28/08/2012 09:25

I found I needed more clothes for me than I would have thought, even though I went home the same day, as I bled through a couple of outfits (nothing scary, just it's all a pretty messy process!!) - and on the same note, LOTS of maternity pads. Breast pads etc not necessary as your milk doesn't come in for a few days, though I guess there's no way of knowing at this stage how long they might keep you, which makes it all a bit tricky! Drinks with straws were brilliant, I got through industrial quantities of apple juice (and passing me drinks gave DH something to do!); but food went totally untouched. Totally agree with Zuleika about the redundancy of stuff to 'pass the time'....

whatsoever · 28/08/2012 09:42

I've packed way too much and I know it. I have a small suitcase for me (the kind you would be allowed as hand luggage on a plane) and the changing bag for the baby, and I haven't finished yet. No drinks or snacks or nursing bras yet, and the wash bag isn't finished.

I'm going to have to pare it down but not sure how. I have too much nightwear (2 tshirt type nighties for birth and 2 big plaid button down ones for after) which take up loads of room, but I'm paranoid about having visitors and being all bloodstained and yucky, so I wanted to have a couple of changes just in case.

Have 5 bodysuits and 6 sleepsuits for baby too, which I'm sure is excessive as well?

Paperclips · 28/08/2012 10:26

I am packing two bags: The "optimistic bag" and the "pessimistic bag"

The optimistic bag will come into hospital with me, and has most of the things people have suggested. It's packed for if everything goes smoothly and I get to go home quick (has enough for 1 night in hospital).

"Pessimistic bag" stays at home (we don't live far from hospital) or in the car boot. It is to top up everything in the event of a longer stay. The longer stay bag has extra nighties, pads, baby clothes and a book and similar stuff. So if I get stuck in hospital DH can just bring me the second bag, rather than lugging it all around to start with.

KatAndKit · 28/08/2012 11:51

I did not need a full box of breast pads. I did not need breast pads at all. Like most women, my milk came in 3 days later, by which time I was back home. I did not need a nursing bra, or indeed any sort of bra during my hospital stay, I just undid my nightie to feed or took it off mostly for skin to skin. I really loved having my own pillow, it did make all the difference to my comfort. I didn't need to take my own ball as they had some there. I did, however, need LOADS of maternity pads - because I was using two at once I went through double the amount. "Going home" outfit for baby is pointless. They are not getting snapped by paparazzi. Vest+Sleepsuit+cardigan+blanket is fine, perhaps a pramsuit if it is winter. going home outfit for you is equally pointless - trackie bottoms and comfy top is just fine.

Ambi · 28/08/2012 15:58

I've packed:
Nightie & vest tops for labour.
3 large knickers
Huge sanitary towels
Going home outfit
Grippy socks
Dark towel
Some nibbles and isotonic sports drinks
Boiled sweets
Lip balm and a few bits of makeup
Hairbrush
Mat bras and 1x breast pads
Toothbrush & paste
Deodorant
Phone (with playlist on) & charger
Camera
For baby:
Vests, sleepsuits, nappies, wipes, dummies, blanket, hat. Car seat to go in car when we go to hospital.

PollyIndia · 28/08/2012 16:51

I feel totally overwhelmed and panicked by the long lists so I am going to go for one of the short lists. Don't have half the stuff on the list, but am only 36 weeks so could be 6 more weeks. I had a fall at the weekend though and the midwife said that could bring labour on slightly earlier so I guess I should think about it...

Can you get the huge sanitary towels etc from sainsburys or is it a boots/mothercare thing?

ZuleikaD · 28/08/2012 17:14

You can get 'maternity pads' from most of the supermarkets as well as Boots. Only seen the disposable knickers in Boots though.

exiledmancityfan · 28/08/2012 17:53

The night time pads are just as good and not as bulky as the maternity ones (plus not as expensive) If you are not planning on BF'ing then check regarding formula, my NHS trust does not provide it unless you are medically unable to BF.

blushingmare · 28/08/2012 18:07

The only things I used from my extensive labour bag were:
Tens machine
Water bottle with straw
Wet flannel to cool me off
Hair band
Jelly babies (eaten half at a time - they were so good!)

I had loads of other stuff packed but wasn't in a fit state to get it myself nor explain where it was to my DH. So my other top tip would be to go through your labour bag with your birth partner before you go into labour!

And for the ward - lots of snacks! I didn't even think about taking my breastfeeding pillow in with me, but I'm hindsight it would have really useful as I lots of trouble getting feeding established and the pillow was a godsend when I used it once I got home (not using it at all now, but it was useful in the early days)

frogalou · 29/08/2012 22:05

I found this list on here too: www.mumsnet.com/pregnancy/hospital-bag

I shall start packing this weekend!

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Roxy33 · 29/08/2012 22:16

Agree with blushingmare about partner going through bag or better yet, make him pack it as he will be the one going into it to fetch things out for you.

frogalou · 29/08/2012 22:18

Good idea, WE shall pack this weekend :)

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Trickle · 29/08/2012 22:26

Would second DP packing the bag, that's what we have done as he is likely to be the person who needs to know where stuff is. Also don't forget to write a list of things in the bag and pack that too - then when you leave hospital you can tick off that you are taking everything home again.

MummyPigandDaddyPig · 29/08/2012 22:28

Ipad
Charger
Phone
Charger
Camera
Charger
Food
Fruit
Cerealbars (allbran chocolate breakfast biscuits are divine)
Instant oatmeal
Proper teabags
Pillow
Eyeshades
Earplugs
Drinks
Huge amounts of disposable knickers and pads
Dressing gown
Baby bedding (the ones at hospital are not very nice)
Hairband to keep annoying hair off your face when trying to latch on baby
And everything else as previously posted...oh and dont forget your charger!!!!

frogalou · 29/08/2012 22:41

you know charger is one of the first things I thought about!

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blushingmare · 30/08/2012 05:49

Ha ha - funny story about charger (well it wasn't funny at the time, but looking back its ridiculousness is funny now). A few hours post (traumatic) delivery. I was recovering in HDU and asked one of the nurses if she would plug in my phone so I could ring my DH and sob down the phone as I couldn't reach and wasn't allowed put of bed yet. She refused, because that was "stealing electricity from the NHS".... Hmm Luckily with the shift change came a nurse with a bit more humanity and common sense!

NapaCab · 30/08/2012 06:42

You won't need much: the reality of most birthing units is that you're only admitted when labour is well established so unless you have a C-section or other complications, you'll be in and out the door in a matter of 8-12 hours. People write up these lists for hospital bags as if it's still 1970 and you're going to be in there for a week!

In the event that you did need to stay in longer than 8 hours, you could send family/partner to go and buy some emergency supplies anyway.

I would say bring the bare minimum other than things you can't buy e.g. phone charger etc.