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Jozee · 24/08/2012 16:32

I have just found out that I am 5 weeks pregnant with our first and very longed for child. I was driving home earlier from the tack shop and suddenly felt an overwhelming sense of holy c**p! It's not that I don't want to be a parent, infact I think I will make a very good parent, it is all this bit that I am feeling anxious about. I am not very maternal and the thought of growing a baby inside of me kind of freaks me out. Not even going to mention child birth and my anxiety there! I am close to tears about all of this because I feel that I shouldn't feel this way but I can't help it. I have discussed it a little with my husband but he doesn't really get it and I don't really want him to think that I don't want this because I do. Pre pregnancy i would have mulled this over with a glass or ten of wine, now I can't even do that !! Any suggestions??

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DuelingFanjo · 24/08/2012 16:33

you will be fine, it's an emotional time and you are full of hormones. Congratulations.

scentednappyhag · 24/08/2012 16:35

It's totally normal, don't panic Smile I had intermittent 'holy shit' moments most of the way through pregnancy. Just be kind to yourself, don't worry that you shouldn't feel this way, and do practical things to help ease the worry, eg plan what you need, shop for maternity clothes etc.
It'll fade, promise Grin

Londonmrss · 24/08/2012 16:36

Relax! Totally normal reaction! Of course the idea takes a bit of getting used to. I'm currently 31 weeks, and still can't really believe that there's a baby in there.
Just give yourself some time.

phoenixrose314 · 24/08/2012 16:39

I have wanted this baby more than anything else in the world, and we had to fight to get it - but even I still get "holy crap!!" moments, so don't worry or think it makes you any less of a parent or mum-to-be :) The beginning is toughest, because you feel like you can't really do anything or tell anyone or prepare in any way whatsoever - but I promise it gets easier and your life will shape around your new future easily enough, bit by bit.

My advice? Talk to your mum or sister or a close friend who already has kids - they'll be able to reassure you the most in those moments of panic.

Best wishes.

Jozee · 24/08/2012 16:46

Thanks guys, you have made me smile! I think I will chat to a close friend, family all live o/s. Just can't believe that it is real!

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